Dear son of a Right Winger

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Everyone should read this, and think. I realize most people won't, but they should.

Go back and read the opening sentences of your letter. Read them again. Then read the rest of your letter. Then read it again. Try to find a single instance where you referred to your dad as a human being, a person, or a man. There isn't one. You've reduced your father -- the person who created you -- to a set of beliefs and political views and how it relates to you. And you don't consider your dad a person of his own standing -- he's just "your dad." You've also reduced yourself to a set of opposing views, and reduced your relationship with him to a fight between the two. The humanity has been reduced to nothingness and all that's left in its place is an argument that can never really be won. And even if one side did win, it probably wouldn't satisfy the deeper desire to be in a state of inflamed passionate conflict.
The world isn't being destroyed by democrats or republicans, red or blue, liberal or conservative, religious or atheist -- the world is being destroyed by one side believing the other side is destroying the world. The world is being hurt and damaged by one group of people believing they're truly better people than the others who think differently. The world officially ends when we let our beliefs conquer love. We must not let this happen.


...


So we must protect and respect each other, no matter how hard it feels. No matter how wrong someone else may seem to us, they are still human. No matter how bad someone may appear, they are truly no worse than us. Our beliefs and behavior don't make us fundamentally better than others, no matter how satisfying it is to believe otherwise. We must be tireless in our efforts to see things from the point of view we most disagree with. We must make endless efforts to try and understand the people we least relate to. And we must at all times force ourselves to love the people we dislike the most. Not because it's nice or because they deserve it, but because our own sanity and survival depends on it. And if we do find ourselves pushed into a corner where we must kill others in order to survive, we must fully accept that we are killing people just as fully human as ourselves, and not some evil abstract creatures.


Ask Andrew W.K.: My Dad Is a Right-Wing Asshole | Village Voice
 
Everyone should read this, and think. I realize most people won't, but they should.

Go back and read the opening sentences of your letter. Read them again. Then read the rest of your letter. Then read it again. Try to find a single instance where you referred to your dad as a human being, a person, or a man. There isn't one. You've reduced your father -- the person who created you -- to a set of beliefs and political views and how it relates to you. And you don't consider your dad a person of his own standing -- he's just "your dad." You've also reduced yourself to a set of opposing views, and reduced your relationship with him to a fight between the two. The humanity has been reduced to nothingness and all that's left in its place is an argument that can never really be won. And even if one side did win, it probably wouldn't satisfy the deeper desire to be in a state of inflamed passionate conflict.
The world isn't being destroyed by democrats or republicans, red or blue, liberal or conservative, religious or atheist -- the world is being destroyed by one side believing the other side is destroying the world. The world is being hurt and damaged by one group of people believing they're truly better people than the others who think differently. The world officially ends when we let our beliefs conquer love. We must not let this happen.


...


So we must protect and respect each other
, no matter how hard it feels. No matter how wrong someone else may seem to us, they are still human. No matter how bad someone may appear, they are truly no worse than us. Our beliefs and behavior don't make us fundamentally better than others, no matter how satisfying it is to believe otherwise. We must be tireless in our efforts to see things from the point of view we most disagree with. We must make endless efforts to try and understand the people we least relate to. And we must at all times force ourselves to love the people we dislike the most. Not because it's nice or because they deserve it, but because our own sanity and survival depends on it. And if we do find ourselves pushed into a corner where we must kill others in order to survive, we must fully accept that we are killing people just as fully human as ourselves, and not some evil abstract creatures.


Ask Andrew W.K.: My Dad Is a Right-Wing Asshole | Village Voice

Too much like socialism. No more helping anyone
 
Everyone should read this, and think. I realize most people won't, but they should.

Go back and read the opening sentences of your letter. Read them again. Then read the rest of your letter. Then read it again. Try to find a single instance where you referred to your dad as a human being, a person, or a man. There isn't one. You've reduced your father -- the person who created you -- to a set of beliefs and political views and how it relates to you. And you don't consider your dad a person of his own standing -- he's just "your dad." You've also reduced yourself to a set of opposing views, and reduced your relationship with him to a fight between the two. The humanity has been reduced to nothingness and all that's left in its place is an argument that can never really be won. And even if one side did win, it probably wouldn't satisfy the deeper desire to be in a state of inflamed passionate conflict.
The world isn't being destroyed by democrats or republicans, red or blue, liberal or conservative, religious or atheist -- the world is being destroyed by one side believing the other side is destroying the world. The world is being hurt and damaged by one group of people believing they're truly better people than the others who think differently. The world officially ends when we let our beliefs conquer love. We must not let this happen.


...


So we must protect and respect each other
, no matter how hard it feels. No matter how wrong someone else may seem to us, they are still human. No matter how bad someone may appear, they are truly no worse than us. Our beliefs and behavior don't make us fundamentally better than others, no matter how satisfying it is to believe otherwise. We must be tireless in our efforts to see things from the point of view we most disagree with. We must make endless efforts to try and understand the people we least relate to. And we must at all times force ourselves to love the people we dislike the most. Not because it's nice or because they deserve it, but because our own sanity and survival depends on it. And if we do find ourselves pushed into a corner where we must kill others in order to survive, we must fully accept that we are killing people just as fully human as ourselves, and not some evil abstract creatures.
Ask Andrew W.K.: My Dad Is a Right-Wing Asshole | Village Voice

Too much like socialism. No more helping anyone

Gee, rdean doesn't read, what a surprise.
 
The "Village Voice" attacking the families of conservatives? Isn't Hollywood enough? I didn't read the editorial because I didn't want to log on to the site so I will rely on the left wing to splain it. Did the Village Voice encourage the "sons of right wingers" to join the Military or display the Flag or encourage other "sons of right wingers" to respect the Flag and the concept of "duty, honor, Country"?
 
I don't consider myself a "Right Winger" although I am a bit more than "fairly" Conservative.

Which in itself, according to Liberals, does make me a Right Winger.

Anyhow... I don't recall ever having political or religious discussions with any of my four children (3 boys, 1 girl). Nor did their mother ever engage in such.

We did however instill in each of them a sense of self-worth, a respect of others, and the importance of achievement in life.

The two older boys have a more Liberal bent than do I. The youngest boy is apolitical as far as I can tell, and the daughter is to this day a blank slate.

And I'm cool with all that.

Because they each have a sense of self-worth, a respect of others, and an understanding of the importance of achievement in life.

I think we did good as parents. :thup:
 
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I don't think a conservative would call his father an "asshole" in a major publication.
 
Is it about religion? Is the left wing offended that right wing parents teach their children about core values instead of hatred for fundamentalist Christian beliefs? What is it about? Is it a typical no nothing post and run by low information lefties?
 
Everyone should read this, and think. I realize most people won't, but they should.

Go back and read the opening sentences of your letter. Read them again. Then read the rest of your letter. Then read it again. Try to find a single instance where you referred to your dad as a human being, a person, or a man. There isn't one. You've reduced your father -- the person who created you -- to a set of beliefs and political views and how it relates to you. And you don't consider your dad a person of his own standing -- he's just "your dad." You've also reduced yourself to a set of opposing views, and reduced your relationship with him to a fight between the two. The humanity has been reduced to nothingness and all that's left in its place is an argument that can never really be won. And even if one side did win, it probably wouldn't satisfy the deeper desire to be in a state of inflamed passionate conflict.
The world isn't being destroyed by democrats or republicans, red or blue, liberal or conservative, religious or atheist -- the world is being destroyed by one side believing the other side is destroying the world. The world is being hurt and damaged by one group of people believing they're truly better people than the others who think differently. The world officially ends when we let our beliefs conquer love. We must not let this happen.


...


So we must protect and respect each other, no matter how hard it feels. No matter how wrong someone else may seem to us, they are still human. No matter how bad someone may appear, they are truly no worse than us. Our beliefs and behavior don't make us fundamentally better than others, no matter how satisfying it is to believe otherwise. We must be tireless in our efforts to see things from the point of view we most disagree with. We must make endless efforts to try and understand the people we least relate to. And we must at all times force ourselves to love the people we dislike the most. Not because it's nice or because they deserve it, but because our own sanity and survival depends on it. And if we do find ourselves pushed into a corner where we must kill others in order to survive, we must fully accept that we are killing people just as fully human as ourselves, and not some evil abstract creatures.


Ask Andrew W.K.: My Dad Is a Right-Wing Asshole | Village Voice

The author has a good handle on things. The OP is correct in suggesting that it is worthwhile reading.

#mindfulness
 
The "Village Voice" attacking the families of conservatives? Isn't Hollywood enough? I didn't read the editorial because I didn't want to log on to the site so I will rely on the left wing to splain it. Did the Village Voice encourage the "sons of right wingers" to join the Military or display the Flag or encourage other "sons of right wingers" to respect the Flag and the concept of "duty, honor, Country"?

Like QW said, read the editorial. You are a prime example of what the editorial is speaking to.
 
I don't think a conservative would call his father an "asshole" in a major publication.

Let's break this pearl of wisdom down, shall we?

Are you saying that conservatives always respect their fathers.....and would never call them an asshole? Or....that they are concerned with how people think of them.....so they will do so.....but not in public?

Also.....have you ever met the child of a liberal father.......who considered his father to be an asshole as a result of his liberal POV?
 
Without hate, the power elite can't continue to dupe much of the population.

Obama tells the Rs to stop hating...while he spews hatred and his followers are blind to the deception.

In politics, the opposing parties must demonize and dehumanize their opponent. It has been so for centuries and the power elite know they can fool some of the people ALL THE TIME.
 
Everyone should read this, and think. I realize most people won't, but they should.

Go back and read the opening sentences of your letter. Read them again. Then read the rest of your letter. Then read it again. Try to find a single instance where you referred to your dad as a human being, a person, or a man. There isn't one. You've reduced your father -- the person who created you -- to a set of beliefs and political views and how it relates to you. And you don't consider your dad a person of his own standing -- he's just "your dad." You've also reduced yourself to a set of opposing views, and reduced your relationship with him to a fight between the two. The humanity has been reduced to nothingness and all that's left in its place is an argument that can never really be won. And even if one side did win, it probably wouldn't satisfy the deeper desire to be in a state of inflamed passionate conflict.
The world isn't being destroyed by democrats or republicans, red or blue, liberal or conservative, religious or atheist -- the world is being destroyed by one side believing the other side is destroying the world. The world is being hurt and damaged by one group of people believing they're truly better people than the others who think differently. The world officially ends when we let our beliefs conquer love. We must not let this happen.


...


So we must protect and respect each other, no matter how hard it feels. No matter how wrong someone else may seem to us, they are still human. No matter how bad someone may appear, they are truly no worse than us. Our beliefs and behavior don't make us fundamentally better than others, no matter how satisfying it is to believe otherwise. We must be tireless in our efforts to see things from the point of view we most disagree with. We must make endless efforts to try and understand the people we least relate to. And we must at all times force ourselves to love the people we dislike the most. Not because it's nice or because they deserve it, but because our own sanity and survival depends on it. And if we do find ourselves pushed into a corner where we must kill others in order to survive, we must fully accept that we are killing people just as fully human as ourselves, and not some evil abstract creatures.


Ask Andrew W.K.: My Dad Is a Right-Wing Asshole | Village Voice

The author has a good handle on things. The OP is correct in suggesting that it is worthwhile reading.

#mindfulness

Eh .. too wordy, repetitive and boring...

Thumbs down...
 

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