del
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If any gays (or anyone else for that matter) decides to "bother me" with their business, I am quite capable of telling them to take a hike on my own. I have to admit that in the beginning I was quite pleasant to these two women, only when they insisted did I amuse myself with being as graphic and humiliating I could. And, knowing all the while I could do that. It was quite satisfying.
PSSST. There's NO Business! I'm an artist (among other things). But there's no business.
two questions.
1. Do you charge for your paintings
2. You were graphic and humiliating to someone just because you could be?
Most of the time I do not sell my work. I paint almost exclusively for competitions and exhibitions. I just keep sending them out, over and over to different competitions and exhibitions. Right now I have a bunch in China. If someone wants to buy something I had done, and it has happened we can work something out. Especially if it's old and has outlived its usefulness to me. I do not paint on commission. Although if I feel like it I will. I painted the portrait of a friend's dog. Consequently I do not advertise. I do not hold myself out as an artist that can be hired to perform a specific work of art. These women saw my work at an exhibition and came to see me to ask me to paint their wedding portrait. I told them I didn't want to do it, there are portraitists who advertise and will be happy to do it. They insisted and pissed me off. I knew, yes I did know that there was nothing they could do no matter how humiliating I was so I intended to teach them a lesson. They decided to sue, which gave me a hobby for five months. In the end, they failed to prove that I was in "business". They were essentially asking for a favor and I was within my absolute rights to tell them no however I wished to tell them no.
Unfortunately gays and lesbians have formed the opinion that merely by virtue of being gays and lesbians they are entitled to something. They aren't. I was supremely happy to make that known to at least two of them. Would my answer have been different had it been a heterosexual couple. Not really. I would NOT want to be tied up painting commissions and exclude what I want to do. Now, had this couple had a cute dog or cat and asked me to paint their pet, I might have been more persuaded. Not a sure thing because I do not like painting for someone else. When I do that, I don't get to exhibit or send it for competition. It's done. There are a ton of artists out there for that.
They picked on the wrong artist to try to strong arm.
thank you for posting that
thats some funny shit