emilynghiem
Constitutionalist / Universalist
Thank you Tennyson and Sneekin for your honest speech feedback details and defensesUmm Emily, you are calling for separate but equal, which has been deemed unconstitutional how many times? What if I don't like the term Civil Unions? Can I call it Fried Cauliflower? Just like we can't have separate lines for drinking fountains, or forced segregation, we can't call marriage civil unions for one part of the population, and marriage for the other. Religious marriage is Holy Matrimony. Civil Marriage is Marriage, and is completely different. If you have a Holy Matrimony and your priest/rabbi/Imam/minister fails to sign the state document signifying you are married, you aren't legally married. So, the fact is, marriage is a secular contract between two persons (who can sign a contract and give consent). I'm not sure where you obtain your legal answers from (on-line or mail-order, perhaps?), but according to attorneys and judges on both sides of the issue, we don't vote on the rights of the individual or group. Check the Loving case and educate yourself. You'll never have 100 percent turn out, and you have no clue as to the millions if not billions of dollars it would take to modify or create new laws granting civil unions the same rights as marriage (putting aside the fact that it's not constitutional). Are you willing to personally fund this? Your blather about it being unconstitutional and one is forcing gay marriage onto Christians is laughable, since the Supreme Court ruling, not even one Christian has been forced to be gay married, and I challenge you to prove differently. Also, no church has been forced to gay marry anyone, which would violate their first amendment rights. You are out of gas, and just like to hear yourself talk. We don't get to vote on the meaning of words, you are foolish.
You seem to have a penchant for making condescending replies to Elmily, who asks legitimate questions out of curiosity, and treats everyone with respect. You seem to have an unchecked ego. Based on your posts regarding the law, your ego is on shaky ground.
Why don't you give me the reason why Plessy was wrongly decided and why Brown was rightly decided with the constitutional basis.
I'm willing to set aside any remarks made personally or off topic, as you both show sincerity in answering in full and presenting what shapes your decision or perceptions
I don't think any of us here can say we don't have an unchecked ego ourselves at times, except we help check each other. That's true in general especially online and I appreciate your help in this.
Tennyson I hope we don't insult your intelligence or burden you as trolls do
I believe the intent is sincere and no insults or condescending remarks are intended. We are honestly ignorant of where each other is coming from, and the only way to learn is to ask even if it makes us look stupid to others.
Sorry if what we ask or say disappoints or taxes your time and energy, but I'm happy to continue this discourse and direction despite those hiccups and would rather keep hearing from you and Sneekin so we finish where we can go with this! Thank you both!
Yours truly Emily
If new threads are needed please tag me and I'll follow your lead there