^^^
This all sounds very curious...
I say be loving, be gracious, be yourself, comb her hair, massage her and give her a special treat once per day. She will love you forever....
....at least that is what I do for my little girl in my signature....
Relationships are easy.
Get in to one that you can afford the maintenance on and be nice.
[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQnVZ_LL4CE]Be Nice from Roadhouse - YouTube[/ame]