The Drama Triangle

[there4eyeM]

Perception is 100% subjective. Humans only know through perception. Any reality that exists becomes electrochemical reactions once they pass the interface of the senses. Reality is subjective in any useful meaning of understanding.
“We are here and it is now. Further than that, all human knowledge is moonshine.”
― H.L. Mencken

 

[Dhara]

In the "game of dissociation" there are two basic positions, victim and victimizer, (persecutor). The earnest "helper" ineffectively rescues the victim. The rescuer is a victim waiting to happen or a persecutor waiting to happen.

The persecutor is the one who gives the insults and injuries that maintain these dissociative dosing transactions, while the victim is the one doing the recieving.

A successful "dosing" leaves both players in the game more absent than present. Both are terrified of abandonment

 

[Dhara]

The terror has to be walled off and what's left are two apparent "choices", either to punish and abandon the victim or to become the one who punishes and abandons.

 

[koshergrl]

Here we go.