Zone1 Modern American white women have unrealistic expectations of men and that's why we're having so many problems keeping our families together

I did not move to Singapore

I went to Thailand and Cambodia for almost 4 months as an adventure .....

= you were a mere tourist wearing a fanny-pack and zinc on your nose who decided this gave you worldly wisdom you needed to repeat hundreds of times here. Take all that noise, and your hatred for the US, and shove them up your ignorant ass.
 
So you made it up.

Wow, it's almost as if television is showing us a make believe world.


The Flintstones were not real
it's not like young women aren't (sub-)conciously attracted to the "false promises" described in RomComs.
that makes the creators and profit-reapers of such series guilty of irrealisticly educating scores of young women.

and that's not the only thing coming from Hollywood that completely sucks.
horror & zombie tv comes to mind as well.
 
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it's not like young women aren't (sub-)conciously attracted to the "false promises" described in RomComs.
that makes the creators and profit-reapers of such series guilty of irrealisticly educating scores of young women.

and that's not the only thing coming from Hollywood that completely sucks.
horror & zombie tv comes to mind as well.

I am not sure why, but it still surprises me how low a view some people have of women.
 
Hmmm...a whole thread of men complaining that they don't measure up but somehow women are the ones who are supposedly mad.

Priceless.
Measure up to what?

I've got no horse in this race, I'm married. But the normalization of women demanding elite characteristics such as being rich, tall, overly handsome, etc... (which accounts for like .01% of the population) .. and calling anyone who doesn't meet the requirements "settling" is a horrible mindset.

It's also causing women to continue to chase 9's and 10's of men. In modern online dating, the data shows that like 80% of women chase like 10-20% of men. Women view MOST men as unattractive, men don't have that same standard.

Meanwhile, the modern woman too often get tricked, as they can sleep with a guy who is a 9 and think that's the caliber of man she deserves for a commitment. That's not the case. High value men can/do sleep with lower women just for sex, but will never give them a relationship or ring.

So you have an epidemic of women chasing guys out of their league, getting sex and nothing more, and becoming frustrated that they can't get commitment, but still clinging onto unrealistic standards because "You go girl, don't settle".

If women weren't pumped full of this type of garbage they'd be far more likely to find happiness with an average man, because most men are average, just like most women are. However, men largely admit they are average, women rarely do.

The differences between the sexes psychologically is massive, and manifests in dating so obviously. But our culture is creating a rude ending for many women, who get to age 38 with no kids, no husband, no prospects... whining about how there are "no men out there", have developed a bad, combative attitude, think their job success means tons to a man...etc. They got lied to, and sadly will have to buy cats to get a drip of what they deep down desired all along.. a stable family with kids.
 
Measure up to what?
The OP cites some mysterious RomCom guy who he can’t name.
I've got no horse in this race, I'm married. But the normalization of women demanding elite characteristics such as being rich, tall, overly handsome, etc... (which accounts for like .01% of the population) .. and calling anyone who doesn't meet the requirements "settling" is a horrible mindset.
If you’re married, apparently that isn’t a requirement. LOL
It's also causing women to continue to chase 9's and 10's of men. In modern online dating, the data shows that like 80% of women chase like 10-20% of men. Women view MOST men as unattractive, men don't have that same standard.

Meanwhile, the modern woman too often get tricked, as they can sleep with a guy who is a 9 and think that's the caliber of man she deserves for a commitment. That's not the case. High value men can/do sleep with lower women just for sex, but will never give them a relationship or ring.

So you have an epidemic of women chasing guys out of their league, getting sex and nothing more, and becoming frustrated that they can't get commitment, but still clinging onto unrealistic standards because "You go girl, don't settle".

If women weren't pumped full of this type of garbage they'd be far more likely to find happiness with an average man, because most men are average, just like most women are. However, men largely admit they are average, women rarely do.

The differences between the sexes psychologically is massive, and manifests in dating so obviously. But our culture is creating a rude ending for many women, who get to age 38 with no kids, no husband, no prospects... whining about how there are "no men out there", have developed a bad, combative attitude, think their job success means tons to a man...etc. They got lied to, and sadly will have to buy cats to get a drip of what they deep down desired all along.. a stable family with kids.
Yeah...no.
 
Men haven't been negatively affected by women of today.
Young people are affected. It’s largely the US government and Hollywood’s fault. Our culture has changed for the worse. There’s an epidemic today of young lonely single people….many of them addicted to drugs, porn, social media, or a combo of all.
 
Measure up to what?

I've got no horse in this race, I'm married. But the normalization of women demanding elite characteristics such as being rich, tall, overly handsome, etc... (which accounts for like .01% of the population) .. and calling anyone who doesn't meet the requirements "settling" is a horrible mindset.

It's also causing women to continue to chase 9's and 10's of men. In modern online dating, the data shows that like 80% of women chase like 10-20% of men. Women view MOST men as unattractive, men don't have that same standard.

Meanwhile, the modern woman too often get tricked, as they can sleep with a guy who is a 9 and think that's the caliber of man she deserves for a commitment. That's not the case. High value men can/do sleep with lower women just for sex, but will never give them a relationship or ring.

So you have an epidemic of women chasing guys out of their league, getting sex and nothing more, and becoming frustrated that they can't get commitment, but still clinging onto unrealistic standards because "You go girl, don't settle".

If women weren't pumped full of this type of garbage they'd be far more likely to find happiness with an average man, because most men are average, just like most women are. However, men largely admit they are average, women rarely do.

The differences between the sexes psychologically is massive, and manifests in dating so obviously. But our culture is creating a rude ending for many women, who get to age 38 with no kids, no husband, no prospects... whining about how there are "no men out there", have developed a bad, combative attitude, think their job success means tons to a man...etc. They got lied to, and sadly will have to buy cats to get a drip of what they deep down desired all along.. a stable family with kids.
Well thought out reasonable post.^

Studies have shown that there are numerous cases of one man dating 5 to 15 women at the same time on dating sites like Tinder. Plenty of examples of women who are sharing the same man knowingly or not.

All of the stats show that online dating is incredibly skewed meaning it is much harder for a man to find a date compared to a woman….doesn’t mean all women are the problem. But there is an imbalance when it comes to online dating.

Men will “swipe right” meaning They will say yes far far more often than women do.

That’s why it’s better for young men to ditch online dating and go for the so called cold approach.

I believe it was the financial times which had said within 10 years or so there will be a very large number of women in their 40s who have no children and who are single. And they will not be happy about their situation. This is due to a changing culture in the USA …the government and the media allowing it to happen or even encouraging it. It’s that left-wing radical BLM feminist attitude, which is terrible for society. It has led to record levels of loneliness and crime surges in the country. Along with high levels of poverty.


Men will “swipe right” meaning They will say yes far far more often than women do.

That’s why it’s better for young men to ditch online dating and go for the so called cold approach.
 
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yes, it is the women's fault.... :rolleyes:
of course not. :D
and it's not really the RomCom creator's faults either. they just try to up the ante among men, and provide good entertainment to women.
but please excuse us men for upgrading themselves somewhat slowly to the new standards ;)
( i still smoke like a chimney ;) )
 
Women are still drawn to strong, assertive men. This is just a biological fact.
 
I think this is an overreaction. Yes less women are having kids. Big whoop. People have become more independent. That's a positive. It's not a responsibility to get married or have kids.
 
 

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