Darkwind
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Doing all of this strikes Me as being a bit of a stalker.Avatar4321 said:Now that Ive finished a major part of my workload this semester im looking to go out alittle more. Anyone have any decent first date ideas? how can i sweep some girls off their feet?
how about some advice from someone who IS a woman?
It depends on HER. First, take note of what she dresses like on a regular basis. Also, look at the car she drives, or what other mode of transportation she takes. Find out what her major is (if she has one). These are all likely to tell you her personality or style before you talk to her and find out she's liberal and you are conservative.
Find out who her friends are and ask them questions about her likes and dislikes. Be open and don't act like a stalker. Come right out and tell them you are interested, but you want to know more about her before you actually ask, so that you are less likely to, say, take a vegan to Outback Steakhouse or a sushi bar.
Once you know about her more, ask her out on a date that will play to her interests, and also YOURS. Be creative with the dates.
Also, you may want to see the movie Hitch with Will Smith. It actually has GREAT points for creative dates and I found it to be right on target with a lot of stuff.
It's one thing to find out some things about her, but I'd do that in a more casual setting. Going to her friends and asking questions when you haven't even had a first date would be creepy to most people.