Cougarbear
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This is a short video, so you can watch it till the end. Not watching it to the end will not give context.
In this video this woman smacked this man - hard - and then he provides her the "opportunity" (depending on how you see it)
to apologize for hitting him.
She doesn't. And he hits her back (open hand - about as hard as she hit him)
What say you?
As for me, I was in a similar situation about 35 years ago. A former girlfriend was angry with me because I refused to take her to a party after a concert we went to. She proceeded to start smacking me like a drum. And hard.
I did not hit her back, but I grabbed hold of her and threw her 3-4 feet in the air to get her away from me. At that point, she was smart enough to stop. So my answer would be no. I do not believe a man should hit a woman, even if he hits her.
Depends on some factors:
1. Does she have a gun with her?
2. Does she have a knife or other weapon with her?
3. Is she hitting you with a baseball bat?
4. Is she throwing frying pans at you?
5. Is she a black belt in martial arts and you aren’t?
Other than that, restraining her is the better approach. Then talking her down.