Yeah, definitely... Don't let ANYONE know how you feel about legally divorcing a boy from a father or a girl from a mother for life..Don't vote on this creepy thread.
You mean like what happened to your kids?
There is no guarantee that children will get two parents- let alone two parents of opposite gender- the law doesn't require it- which is why you and your hubbie could get legally divorced, leaving your kids to be raised by one parent.
Preventing gay couples from marrying does not provide an opposite gender parent to a single child- but it does prevent thousands of children from having married parents.
Which does harm them.