The Internet: It's like never leaving junior high

BlueGin

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(CNN) -- Remember when you were 12 years old and you'd pass notes in class, making snide remarks about members of the opposite sex?

Remember the electricity that shot through school when word went around that there was going to be a schoolyard rumble?

Remember the rollercoasters of emotions, the whispers of gossip, the crying because your best friend betrayed you, the molehills made into mountains?

If life is just like high school, then the Internet might be an age group lower. Much of our digital world means never having to leave junior high school behind.

Sure, the Web has plenty of mature, resourceful people who create clever online projects or crowdsource solutions to global problems. But some experts also believe it perpetuates childhood.

Janet Sternberg, a communications professor at Fordham University in New York who's written a great deal about online civility, sees a reverse of a pattern created by television. If, as cultural critic Neil Postman asserted, TV ended childhood -- the medium provided an impetus for young people to act older, which created hand-wringing about generations growing up too quickly -- the Internet has done the opposite, she says.

"The Internet and digital media have produced this 'Peter Pan effect' where we never grow up, we're perpetual children, we never have to be responsible for anything -- we keep this juvenile mentality," she says.

The Internet: It's like never leaving junior high - CNN.com
 
Perceptive comment as it regards boards like these, for sure.

Places like this are ideal for KNOW NOTHINGS, cowards and bully wannabes.
 
The op says more than just about the net though.

Is the net the cause or just a manifestation?
 
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Perceptive comment as it regards boards like these, for sure.

Places like this are ideal for KNOW NOTHINGS, cowards and bully wannabes.

Yes and its also a perfect place for people who care about facts and reality to counter the silly childish outlook of some who play here.

Its the place were everyone is looking and their ideas are protected by being in "quiet rooms" that robmoney liked so much.

They say the things they only say to each other here.

You get to see it and critizise it for what it is


bullshit
 
Perceptive comment as it regards boards like these, for sure.

Places like this are ideal for KNOW NOTHINGS, cowards and bully wannabes.

Definately. Like this quote for example. Totally related to message board inhabitants we have seen here in the past. Not much for politcal discussion...hugely into goning on and on about other"fake" online personalities though. They must be a blast in real life. :cuckoo::razz:

the Web has a clique for every would-be adolescent -- class clowns, bullies, drama queens and fanboys. (There's plenty of room for geeks and nerds, too.) They all get to indulge in their petty squabbles, and few of them show signs of growing up.
 
the internets is for free speech right from us lowly regular joes.

On sites like this you see right into the core of who Amercans are.


If you dont find it pretty then try to fix it.

Fight the lies and cheating.

That is why Im here.

None of the lies get to just stand unchallenged like they would in the "quiet roooms" people like Robmoney want to do their business in
 
Perceptive comment as it regards boards like these, for sure.

Places like this are ideal for KNOW NOTHINGS, cowards and bully wannabes.

You should feel right at home in the "know nothing" category...

All this natural gas is not going to help Americans much.

Most of it will be shipped overseas. m

Unless you own stock in those companies this fracking does you no good.
 
Yeah, high school bullying is liberated on forums. The many careful rituals of reallife that stop the bullying don't operate here.

I've decided the current push to real names on the Internet probably is essential. Problematic, but there is a high level of irresponsibility on the Internet that needs to get limited by more rules from reallife.
 
Yeah, high school bullying is liberated on forums. The many careful rituals of reallife that stop the bullying don't operate here.

I've decided the current push to real names on the Internet probably is essential. Problematic, but there is a high level of irresponsibility on the Internet that needs to get limited by more rules from reallife.

Interesting for two reasons:

1). Bullies always promote self moderation...yet never seem to be able to "self moderate"
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2). First thing they will try to do to silence others? Try to take away their anon status. :eusa_shhh:
 
Just relaying information that is in the weekly news...:eusa_angel:

Yeppers ...the age and venue of reward driven learning...just like Pavlov's dogs ;)

A squirt of dopamine, a shot of attention
 
Just relaying information that is in the weekly news...:eusa_angel:

Yeppers ...the age and venue of reward driven learning...just like Pavlov's dogs ;)

A squirt of dopamine, a shot of attention

The worst part is when these kids finally hit the work place. They are psychologically and emotionally ill prepared to deal with reality, the first dressing down they receive can throw them into a tearful mass of blubbering flesh.
 
Just relaying information that is in the weekly news...:eusa_angel:

Yeppers ...the age and venue of reward driven learning...just like Pavlov's dogs ;)

A squirt of dopamine, a shot of attention

The worst part is when these kids finally hit the work place. They are psychologically and emotionally ill prepared to deal with reality, the first dressing down they receive can throw them into a tearful mass of blubbering flesh.



Yep, lots of companies have web browsers locked down and the addicts can't go to Farcebook or Twatter. If they're on their smartphones all day, look out.
 
the internets is for free speech right from us lowly regular joes.

On sites like this you see right into the core of who Amercans are.


If you dont find it pretty then try to fix it.

Fight the lies and cheating.

That is why Im here.

None of the lies get to just stand unchallenged like they would in the "quiet roooms" people like Robmoney want to do their business in

you do realize that no one even bothers to listen to you
 
Just relaying information that is in the weekly news...:eusa_angel:

Yeppers ...the age and venue of reward driven learning...just like Pavlov's dogs ;)

The worst part is when these kids finally hit the work place. They are psychologically and emotionally ill prepared to deal with reality, the first dressing down they receive can throw them into a tearful mass of blubbering flesh.



Yep, lots of companies have web browsers locked down and the addicts can't go to Farcebook or Twatter. If they're on their smartphones all day, look out.

I have Facebook/Youtube/twitter/MySpace all blocked on our webserver in the office.
You have to.
 

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