Just as civil rights for minorities was won through a long, protracted battle with bigots, so will equality for gays.
It's an inevitability.
What equality? I repeat, there is legally no such thing as heterosexual marriage nor is there any law that states heterosexuals have a right to marriage, the 14th Amendent has no use is arguing for equal protection under the law for something that legally doesn't exist for the group that is claimed to have those rights.
Oh, I see your problem, your mistaking an inalienable right with a law.
You know the term inalienable right doesn't actually carry any legal weight in the Constitution right?
Mike