Cecilie1200
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You could have said "carry them". But you chose "dead weight". I like that.Why would it?Let’s say somebody isn’t attracted to Asians and therefore not interested in dating them. Would that make them racist against Asians?Regardless of motivation, it's still racist. Affirmative Action is racist. Any program that prefers one race over another solely on basis of race is racist. I will observe that if someone exercises their own preference in favor of Caucasians, they would be immediately censored.Could it be that she wants to help the black community with the little power she has? When you see reports that their unemployment rate is twice as high as whites and they have higher poverty rates and they deal with racial hardships in other areas... it racist or even wrong for somebody to want to focus on helping that cause?
Also she is married to a black guy is that right? Perhaps she has better relationships and commonalities with blacks so she is drawn to them more than others. Like I said before everybody is their own preference, attractions, and comforts in all facets of life. We are never going to have a truly objective and uninfluenced society.
I prefer dating Asians, actually, so I can speak to this. It does not in any way impinge on the rest of my life. Couldn't care less what race or ethnicity my co-workers are, so long as I don't have to carry their dead weight.
Making the distinction between helping people when they need it and having to do two jobs because the other person is completely useless. Pardon the ego, but it's not uncommon for me to have to carry co-workers in some areas because I happen to be much better in those areas. Conversely, sometimes they have to carry me in areas I suck at. It's what makes a good team.