tigerred59
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I would forgive the person, yes, but no, I would not tell them that I have forgiven them...until they themselves ask me to forgive them. Before they ask me to forgive them, I don't believe that its any of their business what my feelings towards them are anyways. They obviously didn't care how I felt to begin with or they would not have done whatever it is that they did in the first place, so what would be the point in telling them how I feel after they have done it? Until they seek my forgiveness, I wouldn't have anything more to do with them because that right there would be the only way to make sure that they don't continue to do to me whatever it is that have done to me already whether I have forgiven them or not.
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Holly
Exactly......and then and only then, and that's if my heart has healed a bit, then I will find forgiveness somehow, because God should be his judge, not me. But forgiving right out the gate? No effin way and I admire these people for doing it, but I would be my last dollar, after his trial starts and all the details come out....I'm not sure if forgiving this kid is gonna be all that forth coming anymore.