thereisnospoon
Gold Member
If you had borne your children a couple of years down the road from now, the possibility that government review boards might consider them defective enough to be ineligible for the requisite life-long medical care might just become the new reality. If obamatax is allowed to remain as is and is fully instated as planned, there will be some pretty disappointing surprises.
Felix Sabates...Cam here in one of the Cuban boat lifts in the late 50's with nothing. He is a multi millionaire with his investments mainly in real estate and the auto sales business.
Wayne Huizenga....
Came from the suburbs of Chicago. Graduated from a tiny liberal arts college and returned home. He started business with a a SINGLE garbage truck. Years later that garbage truck became Waste Management Corp.
Mentioning Bill Gates. Middle class is not exactly an advantage. In any event, Gates's brilliance and drive to succeed where other had failed is what made him the richest guy on the planet.
Please..Don't use PC buzz terms like "special needs". It's insulting.
It implies the person is "less than normal".
Why is it you cannot just be honest and say what ails your kids instead of hiding behind terms like "special needs"?
You are a whiner. You carp and moan about what other people have . You whine about not being able to get the job you want. Then you backtrack by saying your career days ended when your "special needs" kids were born...
Look genius, no matter who's shoulder on which you cry, you cannot have it both ways.
My kids are both autistic, both ends of the spectrum. Someone had to be here to take care of them, therefore, I couldn't go back to work once they started school as I'd intended. However, due to circumstances, there are several times during our 31 years of marriage when my husband has been out of work and he had to take care of the kdis while I found a job. The last time was the worst, it took me more than a year. When I found it, I was happy, it was second shift so when my husband was rehired at his job, I kept mine, until it was sent to India. Changes in our laws could have prevented that. My youngest, who is low functioning is finally in a living arrangement with 24/7 care. To get that, I had to threaten suicide. He's over 6 feet tall at at the time weighed over 200 pounds. He's ripped up parts of our house, my bathroom is still covered in plywood due to the damage he did. The state wouldn't provide help for him 24/7 in our home, which actually would have been cheaper for them. My husband and I are getting old, we can't handle it anymore. My husband has Parkinson's now.
I do not carp and moan about what other people have. I whine about the growing income gap which is not good for our country. I can see the deterioration of our country. I volunteer so I see the homeless. Do you know how many people are being laid off in their 50's and not being hired due to their age? heck, one woman was complaining to me that she was laid off at 74 and can't get another job. What the heck is wrong with our country when a 74 year old woman has to work and can't find work and ends up on the streets?
If you have the patience to care for two autistic children, you have my utmost respect and admiration in that regard.
Whining about the so called income gap is not going to change your situation. You can complain all you like. At the end of the complaining session, you are still taking care of two autistic kids.
Older people ARE victims of ageism. 100%.
It's a pervasive problem and should be given the same attention as sex or racial discrimination.
The problem is twofold. One it IS illegal to discriminate based on age. TWO, older people just do not have the support that other groups have in the case of discrimination on the job. In other words, attorneys just do not find age discrimination cases particularly "sexy".