No, I wasn't. The clearing out of bars? That's a rueful admission by some unpopular males who are socially awkward, and when they come in, everyone else, especially the women, go out.It has nothing to do with the topic. It's just that you were trying to present the group of guys that people are afraid of as something heroic and serious. "Criminal romance". This is usually not true. Male conversation is only one-to-one or group-to-group conversation.
I'm going out now.