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'Marriage isn't for you'
Seth Adam Smith reflected in an article titled “Marriage isn’t for you” how he learned (the hard way) that marriage isn't about you, but rather the person you have chosen to spend your life with, and how you must support them and put them first.
His father had some inspiring wisdom to share: "You don't marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy. More than that, your marriage isn't for yourself, you're marrying for a family. Not just for the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children. Who do you want to help you raise them? Who do you want to influence them? Marriage isn't for you. It's not about you. Marriage is about the person you married."
This said, I see no rational reason for what some would call "homosexual marriage." There, its fulfillment is in sexual gratification and sexual orientation. It has nothing to do with family or future children and their raising, learning, or setting the example for them. It is instead a selfish narcissistic desire to be sexually placated.
Seth Adam Smith reflected in an article titled “Marriage isn’t for you” how he learned (the hard way) that marriage isn't about you, but rather the person you have chosen to spend your life with, and how you must support them and put them first.
His father had some inspiring wisdom to share: "You don't marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy. More than that, your marriage isn't for yourself, you're marrying for a family. Not just for the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children. Who do you want to help you raise them? Who do you want to influence them? Marriage isn't for you. It's not about you. Marriage is about the person you married."
This said, I see no rational reason for what some would call "homosexual marriage." There, its fulfillment is in sexual gratification and sexual orientation. It has nothing to do with family or future children and their raising, learning, or setting the example for them. It is instead a selfish narcissistic desire to be sexually placated.
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