Again, that's your hilariously stupid logic failure in action. "Evaporation exists" is a totally different thing than "The energy from the IR instantly vaporizes the skin layer and the heat instantly leaves the ocean."
If you need me to dumb that down further for you ... you're out of luck. Science can only be dumbed down so far.
Evaporative cooling occurs at the skin and is the dominant driver of the cooling at the surface of the ocean.