Try listening more carefully. Let's call on Alan Greenspan. "I know you think you understand what you thought I said but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant."
First, what did the original authors want the original audience to understand? Second, what is it God want to point you towards?
Cute. Since you have that covered go on to God loves you to the point His universe would not be complete without you. How many believe that God loves them, right now, just as they are. Those who know they are well and truly loved by anyone react differently to that person, are different in that relationship. Loving your neighbors is a piece of cake compared to truly recognizing the love God has for you alone. Try that reality, don't just stand on the outside peering towards it.