Terry
Shut the $%$ Up!
- Jan 15, 2009
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The valve replacement is working really slow so they are watching it closely. They may have to go in and put a pace maker in. My family except for my sister are all totally MESSED UP! I went to my mother's house as I have been doing daily to take my brother food and take care of my mom's african grey bird and toy pom dog. My brother has a nasty pressure sore on his foot. It is wide open and looks very bad. I told him he has to go to the ER and he threw a fit. I called his son and demanded he take him to the hospital. His son's response was "He always gets those" This one is bad, I'm no doctor but to me I think if one doctor took a look at it they would send him to surgery, open it up, to irrigate and clean it. I've brought up putting my brother in a hospital but nobody will have it, especially now that my mom is dealing with this. They said if mom gets wind of it, or is released, goes home and sees he was committed she will die on the spot. It is tearing me apart because I know that he needs to be in the hospital and I'm arguing with everyone and nothing but fighting.
I just want to go home now. *cry*
My brother sent me a text message and wants to go to the hospital to see my mother. I call his son to take him, his son made excuse after excuse. Now I am going to have to do this. I will try to get someone to see his foot but it will cause a major scene, my brother will fight and scream like his life depended on it. HOLY CRAP!
It is a lot easier to figure out what to do, but when you're in those shoes and getting nothing but brick walls in front of you, it isn't so easy.
I'm heading up to the hospital now. I have to take a class on how to care for my mother if she gets out of the hospital.
I don't know why her pallets (sp?) are so low at 50. I tried to ask her doctor and he turned to my mom and told her, we are watching you closely and left!!!! WTH.
The valve replacement is working really slow so they are watching it closely. They may have to go in and put a pace maker in. My family except for my sister are all totally MESSED UP! I went to my mother's house as I have been doing daily to take my brother food and take care of my mom's african grey bird and toy pom dog. My brother has a nasty pressure sore on his foot. It is wide open and looks very bad. I told him he has to go to the ER and he threw a fit. I called his son and demanded he take him to the hospital. His son's response was "He always gets those" This one is bad, I'm no doctor but to me I think if one doctor took a look at it they would send him to surgery, open it up, to irrigate and clean it. I've brought up putting my brother in a hospital but nobody will have it, especially now that my mom is dealing with this. They said if mom gets wind of it, or is released, goes home and sees he was committed she will die on the spot. It is tearing me apart because I know that he needs to be in the hospital and I'm arguing with everyone and nothing but fighting.
I just want to go home now. *cry*
My brother sent me a text message and wants to go to the hospital to see my mother. I call his son to take him, his son made excuse after excuse. Now I am going to have to do this. I will try to get someone to see his foot but it will cause a major scene, my brother will fight and scream like his life depended on it. HOLY CRAP!
It is a lot easier to figure out what to do, but when you're in those shoes and getting nothing but brick walls in front of you, it isn't so easy.
I'm heading up to the hospital now. I have to take a class on how to care for my mother if she gets out of the hospital.
I don't know why her pallets (sp?) are so low at 50. I tried to ask her doctor and he turned to my mom and told her, we are watching you closely and left!!!! WTH.