A plane crashed, 4 women and 8 men and 193 unknowns died.
For the sake of humanity, all this pronoun and woke stuff needs outlawed.
The assumption seems to be that if you get the pronoun wrong, you are deliberately insulting them. I'm too old to agonize over such foolishness. I have no track record for being unkind ... or cruel. I would never, ever mock handicapped people nor would my children or anyone in my extended family. I would never shove anyone.