The Rabbi
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- Sep 16, 2009
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You have absolytely no idea what my religious beliefs are or whether they play a part in my opposition to gay marriage.To me, marriage is what my wife and I make of it.So your solution to the plethora of divorces s to increase them? I dont get it.I have no issue with it at all. I will not have to deal with the aggravation as you described above....why should I care if others opt to?There is no basis. Marriage and the way one marries should be an individuals decision....I have no issue with heterosexual marriage, homosexual marriage, or multiple spouse marriages.true. there is not a single mention of marriage in the constitution, the bill of rights, or any of our founding documents.
if you want marriage of any type to be a right, the pass a constitutional amendment.
if you do such an amendment, would you prohibit multiple marriages? if so, on what basis?
so you are ok with multiple person marriages and filling up our courts with very very complex divorce cases?
can you imagine the divorce of a 5 person marriage where 3 want one person divorced out of the marriage and one wants him/her to stay. multiple kids from multiple couplings, 7 or 8 cars, 401K accounts.
come on, Think
And as for "filling up our courts".....divorces are doing that anyway....whether it is divorcing one, or two or half or whatever, it wont make a difference.
I am a conservative. You wish to make your life more difficult, go for it. Just don't expect me to be there to bail you out. I may opt to bail you out, but don't assume it is a given.
The end game here is not gay marriage. It is not polygamous marriage. It is the destruction of marriage. Once marriage ceases to have a sacred aspect it has none at all. That is the end game.
I know one guy that cheats on his wife. Is his marriage, in my eyes, as sacred as mine? No. Does it affect mine? No.
You want to be against gay marriage because it is your religious belief that gay sex is a sin and therefore gay marriage will promote a sin...I get it. I am fine with it. You have the right to wish to protect your religious view of homosexuality.
But to say that someone elses marriage will result in the destruction of the sacredness of marriage...in particular...your marriage....I just don't see it.
Sorry.