Well, you're talking about gays in a committed relationship ("falling in love"), as distinct from gays in the hookup crowd.There is no such thing as homosexuality among non human animals. Animals mate, they do not fall in love and fuck ass. Animals in mating season deprived of a suitable mate will engage in homosexual behavior. Like men in prison will engage in homosexual behavior but aren't gay.
There are (make and female) gay couples we know, that we'd trust our children with.
But these flamboyant in-your-face types with a chip on their shoulder, no