texmaster
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Here's a little tidbit of information. People die in nursing homes everyday. Very few people who come in through the front door leave through that same door.
The fact that you outsourced the care of your family to strangers kind of robs you of the right to question how they died.
Sounds like someone who is clueless about having to care for people who cannot care for themselves. No surprise of course. Ignorance and stupidity judging others when you don't have a clue what their circumstances are is very liberal.
Actually, I spent two years of my nursing training working in aged / chronic care facilities. Some rather nice, some that were nightmares.
If that were actually true you would have never been stupid enough to judge others.
I watch the families of the patients and can roughly put them into three categories. Family that would regularly abuse the staff because they felt guilty for putting the family member in a home and abusing staff made them feel like they still care. The second category are family trying to get their hooks into grandma's property and are continually shoving documents in her face to sign or, worse yet, families who have full on cage fights in the facility over who gets grandpa's Buick.
The third category are family members who are non-existent.
The lesson I learned is that i would consider being staked out in the sun and left for the crows to be more humane than being placed in aged care.
Really. So how would someone who has to work take care of a parent with dementia who needs to be watched 24/7?
How do you take care of someone who cannot go to the bathroom by themselves?
Your callousness and absolute ignorance of basic situations with people who require this care pretending its an easy fix only proves you have never had to make that decision yourself.