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My wife, being a woman, thinks there is something wrong with me and is causing distress. Now, she is not a Psychiatrist, yet she believes that I have a mental handicap or disorder or "something". Putting aside any personal offense and the fact that people with no Psychology training should probably not be attempting to diagnose people with mental disorders, there is the fact that I am a highly successful Software Engineer. This alone should dispel notions of me being mentally handicapped or "something". I have even gone to the lengths of taking a general purpose personality test as well as an IQ test to attempt to convince her. She is still unconvinced and is becoming increasingly insistent that I spend money on a psychiatrist.
I admit that I do have unique behaviors, except I find them helpful and comforting. Most importantly, they are calming and productive. I am also not anti-social like she thinks, simply politely asocial and somewhat indifferent. I consider isolating myself from the rest of the world and thinking about things that interest me to be not only the most enjoyable way to spend most of my time, except the most productive and most energizing. Her reaction reminds me of my kindergarten teacher, another woman. She told my parents that I should not attend regular school because I was mentally retarded. A specialist was called in. He assessed me as being a "very bright boy, not a genius, except certainly not mentally retarded" and advised that I should stay in school with normal kids.
Anyway, here are the results of my personality test and IQ test. Do these results suggest a person at the mercy of mental problems? Do they suggest an uncontrollable individual that is incapable of controlling his emotions through internal dialogue or do they, as I believe, suggest a calm, reasonable man fully capable of interacting with the world in a logical and constructive manner? Furthermore, what else can I possibly do to convince someone, specifically a woman, that I am healthy and normal?
You are more agreeable than 1 of 100 people
You are more compassionate than 0 of 100 people
You are more polite than 71 of 100 people
You are more conscientious than 28 of 100 people
You are more industrious than 50 of 100 people
You are more orderly than 16 of 100 people
You are more extraverted than 1 of 100 people
You are more enthusiastic than 1 of 100 people
You are more assertive than 4 of 100 people
You are higher in neuroticism than 16 of 100 people
You are higher in withdrawal than 67 of 100 people
You are more volatile than 1 of 100 people
You are higher in openness to experience than 87 of 100 people
You are higher in intellect than 97 of 100 people
IQ Test results: 139
I admit that I do have unique behaviors, except I find them helpful and comforting. Most importantly, they are calming and productive. I am also not anti-social like she thinks, simply politely asocial and somewhat indifferent. I consider isolating myself from the rest of the world and thinking about things that interest me to be not only the most enjoyable way to spend most of my time, except the most productive and most energizing. Her reaction reminds me of my kindergarten teacher, another woman. She told my parents that I should not attend regular school because I was mentally retarded. A specialist was called in. He assessed me as being a "very bright boy, not a genius, except certainly not mentally retarded" and advised that I should stay in school with normal kids.
Anyway, here are the results of my personality test and IQ test. Do these results suggest a person at the mercy of mental problems? Do they suggest an uncontrollable individual that is incapable of controlling his emotions through internal dialogue or do they, as I believe, suggest a calm, reasonable man fully capable of interacting with the world in a logical and constructive manner? Furthermore, what else can I possibly do to convince someone, specifically a woman, that I am healthy and normal?
You are more agreeable than 1 of 100 people
You are more compassionate than 0 of 100 people
You are more polite than 71 of 100 people
You are more conscientious than 28 of 100 people
You are more industrious than 50 of 100 people
You are more orderly than 16 of 100 people
You are more extraverted than 1 of 100 people
You are more enthusiastic than 1 of 100 people
You are more assertive than 4 of 100 people
You are higher in neuroticism than 16 of 100 people
You are higher in withdrawal than 67 of 100 people
You are more volatile than 1 of 100 people
You are higher in openness to experience than 87 of 100 people
You are higher in intellect than 97 of 100 people
IQ Test results: 139