NotYourBody
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- May 25, 2019
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You think I have to stand in the store and wait? Bullshit. I go to the store manager and say 'there's a weirdo creep in your parking lot and I need to get to my car. Get somebody out here who can address the situation and help me get to my car safely.'You call it paranoid, I call it second nature.So many mistakes your friend made in the situation you describe.
So should he have stayed home; check between all the parked cars? I that what you do going back to your automobile in a public parking lot?
It can happen to anybody, anywhere, at any time. Criminals do target places where the least suspecting victims are to be found.
Yes, actually, women (especially women alone) do check the parking lot, especially on the way to, and around her own car.
I know who is in the lot, where they are, if they are coming or going, if they are male or female, if they have bags in their hands, if they look like they belong, if they are wondering around lost, if they are walking too close to me and on and on.
You have to be hyper-aware in parking lots.
And you call us paranoid for carrying our guns?![]()
The difference between us is, I don't require a gun to leave my house.
For the record - I've never been blindsided in a parking lot and had my crotch bashed in.
Neither have I, but because that never happened doesn't mean I shouldn't be prepared in case it does, unlike my former coworker.
The links I provided earlier were only stories of CCW holders who protected others. There are thousands of stories of CCW holders protecting themselves, or otherwise stopping a crime about to happen simply by brandishing their firearm.
Now let's compare our strategies to avoid being a victim of a crime. We are both in a store, and we both notice a suspicious looking character in the parking lot. He's not doing anything wrong or illegal to get the police involved, just a little concerning.
With your method, you just stand at that store window waiting for this individual to leave. Because I am armed, I leave the store when I want to. Now, if you did not take notice of me walking safely to my car without altercations, you might be there for hours, or perhaps call a friend to drive over to escort you to your car. Me? I'm home in about 20 minutes proceeding to my next project of the day.
A different scenario: Because I don't have time to wait for this person to leave, I exit the store anyway, and if trouble arises, I use deadly force to stop an attack. If you have somewhere important to go, and get attacked in that parking lot, you may lose your purse, get raped, or perhaps murdered.
So tell me: in that situation, who's ahead of the game, you or I?
I've done it before. Works every time.
I'm always prepared. I don't need a gun to help me feel safe.