Is the sentiment mutual when they lash out at YOU?But it's way more fun to consider them one person, and also keeps things more organized and concise. All in all, it enhances my quality of life 0.000000001367%, which is closer to zero than one but still, it's NOT zero. I may even have a party in its honor!
If we don't respect and treat people as individuals,
how can we ask them not to lump us all together and dismiss us collectively?
We need to stop this business of labeling for convenience.
Especially if Boss is trying to distinguish God as Creator from God as Logic naturally existing.
How can we ask others to make a distinction that is more convenient for us,
when we refuse to distinguish them from something or someone else we are lumping together?
I told you a long time ago, Emily.
I don't take this as seriously as you do. This is a flippant internet conversation to pass time while I also handle my business. It cuts it up a bit. In real life, these conversations would never devolve like this such as they have, not in the circles of people that I keep around.
I lost respect for justin and md long ago, when I saw that their tactics of discussion were grimy.
I consider them vile, as humans. I don't want to respect them. And I'm even the re-conciliatory kind of guy, I give people chances because I'm pretty nice. For that reason, it's even MORE egregious when someone crosses my line of disrespect.
So, to bring the point home for you: I have zero reason or want or necessity to respect these vile creatures.
I respect you though. We disagree in terms of spiritualism, and can still get along like peanut butter and jelly. That's because we are nice people.
These gentlemen called you names, as well. And YOU DEFINITELY did not start that level of disrespect with them. Remember that, when they think they can talk past or down to you, and pretend that you need a babysitter telling you who and who not to trust and things like that. The blatant disrespect cannot be reeled in, their egos are to the moon, alice.
Dear me!
GT, no wonder they lash out and have no respect
if the sentiment is mutual.
I just know that where I treat people with respect,
they do the same, or try to.
how are we going to carve out any civility in the world
if we treat each other as trash?
It makes sense to me if we want to make the world a better place,
the only things we can change are the relations in our range.
If we don't even clean up the garbage there, where we can do something about it,
what hope is there for the rest of the world to clean up messes going on?
Just my understanding of think globally, act locally.
Whatever we do to correct error and restore good faith relations locally
you multiply that by 1000 and you get an exponential impact on the world.
You don't have to believe in the 100th monkey syndrome, or 6 degrees of separation.
Even young kids get the idea of the ripple effect, that if you do one nice thing to
make things better, then the positive love and energy passes forward.
here is a whole nonprofit group doing outreach based on that concept:
Rachel s Challenge
If just one student can have this much impact, think of what the rest of us can do!
Think.
Pacifism has its wisdom, but in these situations and for me personally - it's naive.
If you could, ignore that I'll never respect them and treat my and your interactions independent from the rest of the bumble-jargain.
You are correct, god cannot be proven n'or dis-proven by humans. We begin on similar ground there. However you'd like to elaborate based upon that, I'm game/open minded.
I'm saying we can reach agreement
if we can get past our forgiveness/unforgiveness issues.
So to prove that, we'd have to show that by forgiving each others differences,
we can do more to resolve them.
So part of this process here is to demonstrate the difference:
if people don't forgive, they get stuck
if people do forgive, they can move forward and resolve more points.
the views/beliefs underneath don't really change,
but our perception of how our views connect and relate to each other (despite our differences)
does the more we forgive the conflicts.
Fine. I forgive you that you make women who don't want to have a child guilty.
I forgive you that you took Texas from having 30 abortion clinics all over the state to 6. Making it harder for poor people, not rich, to get abortions, even if they don't want or shouldn't have children.
I forgive you that your side murdered Dr. Tiller. Don't do it again, please.
I forgive you that you make it harder for poor women to get abortions and the lower the amount of foodstamps you give them so it isn't enough. Is that tough love? It certainly isn't smart. Maybe we should cover birth control pills for poor women? Maybe that would make sense. And pills aren't enough. We should get poor women IUD's. That takes the chances of having an accident or mistake from 50% to 2%.
So if you want to talk about how we can lower the number of teen pregnancies, which will lead to less abortions, we've been trying to have that conversation for years. Tell your side.