emilynghiem
Constitutionalist / Universalist
Dear Inevitable
After your reading your messages I got an insight that we really do need to redirect traffic.
Mack Trucks do not belong in the pedestrian or bike lane and vice versa.
I see that MD needs to butt heads with the Pharisees on that level
or he is like a football player on the field with no battle or teams to fight.
So he belongs in a different game, with people who need to butt heads.
Who need a good lashing. He is using the wrong people as target practice.
I know some others who want to address the Jehovah's Witnesses
and Catholic elders about church policies, and who is teaching God/Jesus right or wrong etc.
These people already assume that God is a given, and have other issues to hash out from there.
Let them address each other, as they WANT to have these debates and discussions on that level.
I was hoping MD could learn and take advantage of having Boss and BreezeWood here to
prepare him, but maybe those two need to be part of the team to block and bash people, too.
Any mediator who can reconcile between those three, can teach others how to do it.
Boss was reaching out to BreezeWood and at one point seemed to have smoothed over
a hump with MD, but lost it again, so I'm not sure what it would take to get them on the same page.
Let them have at it.
That is one approach one level,
but there are others that need to be pursued with the same rigor
and commitment to establishing agreement.
We'll get it together. Once the teams organize
people can choose who they want to work with
and who they need to avoid.
I do not understand the people who keep running from the focus that would solve their conflicts,
and keep bringing up and baiting the very issues or people they can't fix just to bash them.
That part I don't understand, and hope people focus on solutions not problems.
You called it childishness, and it reminds me of buying toys for kids so they
can play safely, but they insist on either playing with the noisy pots and pans that get annoying,
or want to take the forks and poke them into the electric sockets or toaster instead to see what would happen.
Oh well. If that is their learning curve, if they want to pull hair and kick shins,
that is just a phase they have to go through.
Thanks for being more mature than that,
and I hope we all grow up to be more like you.
I can be a little kid, too, but at least I go cry in a corner
and don't hit back. I can be 10 times annoying about pushing people,
so thank you for seeing the better side of that, and forgiving the disadvantages I have.
For where I am going, believe me, I will need to ally with a bigger bully
like MD when it comes to the real putting people in their places.
some people NEED someone like MD in their faces
and I can't do what he does. We just need to find that
niche for him, and he will shine and do his job that nobody else can do.
But here, it is wasted on bullying people inappropriately
so you are right that this is not the way to approach it.
Thanks and we'll try something else.
By trial and error, hit and miss, the pieces will fall into place.
Everyone here has some vital part, and we just have to
stay within our proper element and we'll all do much better than this.
Yours truly, with much respect for your support
transparency and honesty,
Emily
After your reading your messages I got an insight that we really do need to redirect traffic.
Mack Trucks do not belong in the pedestrian or bike lane and vice versa.
I see that MD needs to butt heads with the Pharisees on that level
or he is like a football player on the field with no battle or teams to fight.
So he belongs in a different game, with people who need to butt heads.
Who need a good lashing. He is using the wrong people as target practice.
I know some others who want to address the Jehovah's Witnesses
and Catholic elders about church policies, and who is teaching God/Jesus right or wrong etc.
These people already assume that God is a given, and have other issues to hash out from there.
Let them address each other, as they WANT to have these debates and discussions on that level.
I was hoping MD could learn and take advantage of having Boss and BreezeWood here to
prepare him, but maybe those two need to be part of the team to block and bash people, too.
Any mediator who can reconcile between those three, can teach others how to do it.
Boss was reaching out to BreezeWood and at one point seemed to have smoothed over
a hump with MD, but lost it again, so I'm not sure what it would take to get them on the same page.
Let them have at it.
That is one approach one level,
but there are others that need to be pursued with the same rigor
and commitment to establishing agreement.
We'll get it together. Once the teams organize
people can choose who they want to work with
and who they need to avoid.
I do not understand the people who keep running from the focus that would solve their conflicts,
and keep bringing up and baiting the very issues or people they can't fix just to bash them.
That part I don't understand, and hope people focus on solutions not problems.
You called it childishness, and it reminds me of buying toys for kids so they
can play safely, but they insist on either playing with the noisy pots and pans that get annoying,
or want to take the forks and poke them into the electric sockets or toaster instead to see what would happen.
Oh well. If that is their learning curve, if they want to pull hair and kick shins,
that is just a phase they have to go through.
Thanks for being more mature than that,
and I hope we all grow up to be more like you.
I can be a little kid, too, but at least I go cry in a corner
and don't hit back. I can be 10 times annoying about pushing people,
so thank you for seeing the better side of that, and forgiving the disadvantages I have.
For where I am going, believe me, I will need to ally with a bigger bully
like MD when it comes to the real putting people in their places.
some people NEED someone like MD in their faces
and I can't do what he does. We just need to find that
niche for him, and he will shine and do his job that nobody else can do.
But here, it is wasted on bullying people inappropriately
so you are right that this is not the way to approach it.
Thanks and we'll try something else.
By trial and error, hit and miss, the pieces will fall into place.
Everyone here has some vital part, and we just have to
stay within our proper element and we'll all do much better than this.
Yours truly, with much respect for your support
transparency and honesty,
Emily