Redfish
Diamond Member
Don't get TOO hung up on the attraction part of these decisions. If it's "biology" or "neurology" -- you'd than have to find an essentially different basis in neuro or bio to explain the MUCH LARGER SEGMENT of the population who are BI-sexual or opportunistically bisexual. This dominant and HUGE sector of the LGBTQY community seems to be totally out of convenience and choice..
You think that our society has made it "convenient" to be lesbian or gay?
We have to fight for a freak'n wedding cake
I didn't go there. I used "convenient" to describe bisexual behavior. Can't be the same bio or mental "wiring" argument -- therefore BI is NOT the same syndrome as being Lesbian or Homo... YET -- most folks look at it all as bio or mental pre-determined "sexual preference".
There's THREE of the LGBTQY community segments representing the VAST majority of member that aren't MOTIVATED in the same way for their behavior. So "attraction" seems more of a convenient CHOICE for the Bisexers then anything pre-wired as biological or mental..
We don't know to what degree it is biological vs mental
What we do know is that it doesn't matter. People should be able to choose the person they love regardless of the contributing factors
And a baker should be able to say "please use someone else" without having to choose between their conscience or financial ruin.
Same thing as "we don't serve n*ggers here"
The merchants felt just as strongly about it
not the same at all. but I understand your problem, you just don't get it.