They are not ree willed and free human beings.. they are children... they do not have the freedom, nor should they have the freedom to just do as they choose... if they do rebel and go against the rules set for them by the parents, it is our duty to teach, punish, or whatever it takes to try and set them on the right path... when they are adult, that is their business
explain to me HOW, as adults, they are supposed to know HOW to make their own decisions, IF when children, they are led around by the nose and instructed what decisions to make? You HAVE to give them some freedom to make their own decisions AND make their own mistakes, that is how people learn and grow into self-sufficient people.
and can I just point out the irony that you don't think of children as free willed and free human beings but rather seem to think of them as property of their parents, free to do with as they see fit and yet you seem to have a problem with abortion. When exactly do these little people get RIGHTS of their own? free to think and feel as they see fit? when YOU decide it's so?
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As for your notion that an f-bomb can be warranted to use to or at a 7th grader.... that says a LOT right there.... it is NOT proper, not warranted, and completely uncalled for at ALL times
I think a loud SIT THE FUCK DOWN would work wonders in some classrooms quite honestly. but that's my opinion.
Did we do things 'wrong'? Yep... Do kids do things wrong and sneak? Yep... does not mean it is best to have it readily there for them....
at least if you're the one making it available they can come to you and ask questions rather than remain ignorant with misinformation...but wait, that's the conservative way, nevermind.
As for the school... it is a public school...
and they have HUSTLER in the library? really? amazing.
Restricting kids and having them with distinct rules and boundaries, keeping them from easy access to improper things for kids, is not treating them like morons... My girls learn things first from me and their mom... and when they do sneak a peek or hear things or whatever, thru the various ways that kids get it, then ask questions and we discuss... but certain things are for adults and certain freedoms that adults have, kids don't and should not have
I'm not saying kids should be running the streets but if you're one of those parents who believes it's the music or movies/television or the video games that causes children to make poor choices then I have some nice swamp land to sell you. Lack of parent involvement, lack of support, lack of guidance and lack of communication are what cause children to make poor choices. Children can and will be exposed to things they shouldn't, hell they just need to watch the nightly news for that, you can't shield them from everything nor should you.
I'm not passing judgement on your parenting cuz I'm sure your girls are just fine, I'm saying that history has shown that the more restrictions you place on a child the more the fight back. you don't have to give them the run of the house but you should at least give them the respect of being a participant in their own lives.