Disir
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No. It is not domestic violence. Domestic violence is non-consensual. There are no safe-words or set limits.
Like I said, just because a person finds a person who agrees to be abused, does not mean it is no longer abuse.
It's about consent. Simply because you have no knowledge of it, does not make it abuse.
It also requires a level of trust that many vanilla do not encounter once in their life time.
Once you get into the beating, it's about endorphins.
I disagree. It is glorified violence. Like I said, a lot of people who were abused as children confuse violence and abuse with affection and love. They are not healthy functioning people. Abusing them and calling it "sex" is wrong.
You're making the assumption that kinksters were abused as children. You have no data that supports this. None. It's high theater. They are not only healthy and functioning people there is an entire network nationally that supports kinksters, including attorneys. You just don't like it. That's fine.
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Ok Disir so similar with homosexuals and transgender who weren't all abused as children.
Why not conduct a study on spiritual healing, with voluntary participation by self-chosen subjects, and see how many of these people change their behavior or not?
Some of the healing goes into "generational" issues before their current family and environment, sort of like inheriting things genetically but this is either psychological or spiritual and not always genetically traceable.
Spiritual healing addresses those levels, too, not just immediate influences and relations
but unconscious patterns people may not know they carry from the past. Buddhists call this karma, Christians call it generational curses or sins, but the healing methods I know that work on recovering addicts and abuse victims go deeper in the spirit. Even the secular methods for healing racism recognize the spiritual wounds carried from previous generations, such as genocide against Native Americans and blacks that manifests as anger and abuse in later generations not directly connected.
Why not study this before assuming that it's natural for people?
What if it is like alcoholic addiction or tendencies that is inherited and part of someone's makeup but it can be healed and not permanent?
Spiritual healing doesn't work. I have given you the studies. You just don't like it.
Simply because you feel that it is unnatural or unhealthy doesn't make it so.