EverCurious
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Sorry a bit of an aside:
hmmm interesting question I had not thought of yet, the tipping thing. I typically math my tip at 20% then round up to the nearest dollar, admittedly because I'm a bit math lazy and don't give a shit about a some change. The reason I'd been tipping was as kind of a reward or encouragement to do a good job (with/for me), much like I'd give a good employee a bonus kind of deal, and I have no qualms admitting that if they did a shitty job they got no tip. I don't "reward" people for doing a shitty job; just to clarify though, having an empty glass of water for half the meal is the kind of stuff that I typically just ignore because they are... ah, I'm going to show my bitch side a bit here, my apologies... min wage underachievers who couldn't really be expected to do more than the minimum to get by. Unless they're younger... Like you can tell when you're dealing with an adult who's bumping along vs a younger adult who doesn't really know what they're supposed to be doing. I can't really blame those kids for their bad managers not teaching them how to do the job, and I know that shit happens constantly, but the adult, they should know better, because its the same shit /they/ would expect, ya know? The young ones I typically try to help out a little, let them know where they went wrong with me or w/e - if they cop an attitude, which many spoiled brats in my area do, then I say hey, it's your check sweety, your choice. Most of them square up frankly and then they get good tips from me.
It's honestly not something I'm personally likely to run into, the waiters and waitresses at the places I frequent know pretty well to give my parties a little extra time, nothing major just make sure to glance over at the table once in a while, make sure that those in my party who only drink water have it - hell the smart ones bring us pitchers of water when it's busy because they know our habits. I've even had our waiters/waitresses come up and apologize to my table for "less than their usual service" because "so and so didn't bother to show up" or w/e. I think ultimately, I'm not going to stop tipping them for that "little extra" my regular waiter/waitresses give me, even if they are getting paid more per hour - I didn't care how much they were making an hour before the silly $15/h min wage movement, I still don't particularly care - It's just the broader picture of economy and "business owner rights" issues that I really care about, not this particular person. I like my "regular" waiter/waitresses and I'll tip them based on that alone so I don't think it'll effect them at all.
The other ones, like the ones who don't know me, not that this happens often, ya know, they might have to work a little harder, not so much because my expectations of service have risen, but because it'd be even more of a "reward for good service" than before somehow. I think it's really going to boil down to personality for me personally; like if they /seem/ like they're trying, sure. If they seem like they're just bumping along, then naw.
hmmm interesting question I had not thought of yet, the tipping thing. I typically math my tip at 20% then round up to the nearest dollar, admittedly because I'm a bit math lazy and don't give a shit about a some change. The reason I'd been tipping was as kind of a reward or encouragement to do a good job (with/for me), much like I'd give a good employee a bonus kind of deal, and I have no qualms admitting that if they did a shitty job they got no tip. I don't "reward" people for doing a shitty job; just to clarify though, having an empty glass of water for half the meal is the kind of stuff that I typically just ignore because they are... ah, I'm going to show my bitch side a bit here, my apologies... min wage underachievers who couldn't really be expected to do more than the minimum to get by. Unless they're younger... Like you can tell when you're dealing with an adult who's bumping along vs a younger adult who doesn't really know what they're supposed to be doing. I can't really blame those kids for their bad managers not teaching them how to do the job, and I know that shit happens constantly, but the adult, they should know better, because its the same shit /they/ would expect, ya know? The young ones I typically try to help out a little, let them know where they went wrong with me or w/e - if they cop an attitude, which many spoiled brats in my area do, then I say hey, it's your check sweety, your choice. Most of them square up frankly and then they get good tips from me.
It's honestly not something I'm personally likely to run into, the waiters and waitresses at the places I frequent know pretty well to give my parties a little extra time, nothing major just make sure to glance over at the table once in a while, make sure that those in my party who only drink water have it - hell the smart ones bring us pitchers of water when it's busy because they know our habits. I've even had our waiters/waitresses come up and apologize to my table for "less than their usual service" because "so and so didn't bother to show up" or w/e. I think ultimately, I'm not going to stop tipping them for that "little extra" my regular waiter/waitresses give me, even if they are getting paid more per hour - I didn't care how much they were making an hour before the silly $15/h min wage movement, I still don't particularly care - It's just the broader picture of economy and "business owner rights" issues that I really care about, not this particular person. I like my "regular" waiter/waitresses and I'll tip them based on that alone so I don't think it'll effect them at all.
The other ones, like the ones who don't know me, not that this happens often, ya know, they might have to work a little harder, not so much because my expectations of service have risen, but because it'd be even more of a "reward for good service" than before somehow. I think it's really going to boil down to personality for me personally; like if they /seem/ like they're trying, sure. If they seem like they're just bumping along, then naw.