Lol! Kinky! I've heard this too, but I've also heard that most men who enjoy that type of sexual activity but aren't actually gay prefer to do it with women. So yeah, I don't think enjoying anal play necessarily makes a man "gay."
I'm a woman who enjoys oral sex, and I don't think that makes me a lesbian either.
My understanding is bisexual men want anal sex with women.
There are nerve endings in the body that provide sexual stimulation. Aversion brought on by societal pressures aside, the gender of the person providing those stimulations is not relevant. People are not gay by what stimulations provide release, but by who they are attracted to and feel emotional love for.
Possibly. My statement was coming from my own frame of reference. The only two men who desired/needed that kind of stimulation ( hurting a woman ) were bisexual.
I wasn't up for it.