The last time that American cities were "decent" was in the 1950s (when I was a teenager).
At that time, no one even thought of violent crime being an issue (except in perhaps a few small pockets of each city).
I remember taking a night course in college and then walking in the dark to my car afterwards. The thought that I could be mugged or murdered never even entered my mind, for the university was in a good section of the city where bad people rarely entered. And in those days, the police were not afraid to stop suspicious-looking people and ask for ID.
What is the standard for an American city to be judged "decent"? What is the standard for deciding that someone is a "suspicious-looking" person? I have very pale skin and blue eyes. Am I "suspicious looking"? I once walked across the border at San Ysidro, having spent a very depressing day in Tijuana. Nobody said a word. Was it the pale skin? The blue eyes?
A "decent" American city is one in which a good person can walk down the street without fear of being robbed or sucker punched or raped or murdered.
A "decent" American city is one in which a good person can take a bus or subway without being robbed or ...
A "decent" American city is one that is NOT like the New York City of today.
How in the hell to do you know. I would ride the subway in NYC or DC on any given day. I'm near DC now, and ride the metro often. I can get off at Foggy Bottom or Smithsonian or Connecticut and K any time I want to. I can walk up 23rd street and walk to Georgetown as far as my legs can carry me down M Street. Why do you have this fantasy that you will be robbed and killed? What is this about? I can be at Foggy Bottom or Dupont Circle in the snap of my fingers. Nothing is going on here, except for the orange whore disgracing Lafayette Park and St. John's.
I know because even the liberal media have to report the horrible crimes that are occurring in the Big Apple & D.C.
If you wish to deny it, that is your right. It is not my place to gainsay you. I believe in everyone keeping his/her place, so I always keep my place.
I congratulate you on your good luck walking the streets of NYC and taking the subway and walking the streets of NYC & D.C.
For my part, I try to warn as many international visitors as I can to take a taxi instead.
Have a nice (and safe) new week!