JOSweetHeart
Gold Member
If a dad or a mom both were not needed, they both would not exist. The Lord wouldn't have had a man and woman's being together be the only way that a child can be created.^^^ So you think that its good that she now feels ripped off for not having a dad when she was younger? To me, that only makes you a word that I can not say! If a person can not put first the needs of their children, they are not a parent. They do not even deserve to have the kids period.
Yes its her mom's fault for having no desire to find her daughter a new dad. Obviously what you and her mother do not get is that when you become a parent, what the child needs is what should come first.Yeah..her father abandoned her....but it's all the fault of gay marriage..........................
God bless you two always!!!
HollyIts seems that you, like many others, have a difficult time distinguishing between a "need" and a "want".
God bless you always!!!
Holly
I already know of one person who would objective to this because their step dad was the only dad that they ever knew.I believe all of her needs were met to the best of her mother's ability. She likely couldn't make he ex husband stay. A step mom or dad will never be your dad.^^^ So you think that its good that she now feels ripped off for not having a dad when she was younger? To me, that only makes you a word that I can not say! If a person can not put first the needs of their children, they are not a parent. They do not even deserve to have the kids period.
I disagree, I think it's her father's fault for leaving them. Is he dead, is he in a different part of the world? Does she even know? None of that is her mother's fault.Yes its her mom's fault for having no desire to find her daughter a new dad. Obviously what you and her mother do not get is that when you become a parent, what the child needs is what should come first.
God bless you two always!!!
Holly
I'd say she did put the needs of her child first, any needs she could provide that is. She couldn't make her dad come back. A step father wouldn't be he father. And should the mother just pick some guy that she can't love? Is it good for children to be raised in families with loveless parents?
I would say she did the best she could. All kids are going to feel ripped off if they think about what they didn't have. My mom and dad aren't perfect but they did the best they could, they love me very much I feel blessed.
She could feel blessed and still have a longing for a relationship her father never have her. But I wouldn't blame her mother, her mother stood by her and did the hard thing. I know people (it makes me very sad this exists) that would give anything to have somebody care about them as much as her mother and step mom did.
Considering the alternatives, if say she is lucky. Very lucky.
I wish her the best with her children and husband.
God bless you two and them always!!!
Holly
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P.S. That girl's needs were not put first because if they had been, she wouldn't have such things to say about her life now. Because of her mother's selfish choice, the girl had to go out and find a dad herself, something that no child should ever have to do, same thing with children having to find themselves a mom themselves.
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