Crystalclear
Right-Wing Conservative
- Mar 27, 2014
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But why the hell would the husband rape the woman if he could have normal sex with her?
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Meanwhile, he's free to rape her again.
If she eats or drinks anything he gives to her, it's her fault at that point. He's not a violent rapist. There was no force involved. She claims he drugged her. That's an easy rape to avoid.
This woman is apparently consumed with rage and hate over three (or more) attacks that did her no physical harm and that she did not even remember.
Forgiveness is an individual thing and nobody can be told to forgive someone else for anything, but it does sound to me like this woman needs to get on with her life.
WOW you are a really asshole! She was raped and it doesn't matter (at least in this case) that it was her husband. She was violated and it was taped. She is emotionally scarred and won't be as trusting of others. Her pain is real and only an asshole would make a comment like that.
Who are you to tell her to get on with it.
She is just going to have to get on with it. If she carts this around for very long it will only hurt her. She was raped while she was asleep by her husband. Hardly a traumatic experience. As far as trusting others, why would she be trusting anyone? While her pain is real it likely got a lot more painful in 2011 when she decided to get a divorce than it was in 2009 when it happened .
So they were married at the time ? Were they separated ? I'm trying to figure out why he would do such a thing, if they were already having a normal married couple's sexual relationship ?
I do wonder how he had sex with her and she didnt know the next day.
But why the hell would the husband rape the woman if he could have normal sex with her?
So they were married at the time ? Were they separated ? I'm trying to figure out why he would do such a thing, if they were already having a normal married couple's sexual relationship ?
Probably some complicated story? It doesn't sound anything close to normal. jmo. Abusive would be closer.
So---even though there are few resources for women in such situations--she should have left--allowed her husband to have their home and live on the street if that is all she could do.
She managed to get a divorce, get out and then too late tried to confront the issue.
Forgiveness may come later. She needs to think of herself --I've heard of the stages of grief--anger is maybe first--cannot recall.
Wouldn't waste a bullet on him. all I can say.
I do wonder how he had sex with her and she didnt know the next day.
If a woman has been sexually active in the recent past, its very possible not to feel it the next day.
But why the hell would the husband rape the woman if he could have normal sex with her?
Some people are weird. i met a girl once that liked to be choked.
Meanwhile, he's free to rape her again.
If she eats or drinks anything he gives to her, it's her fault at that point. He's not a violent rapist. There was no force involved. She claims he drugged her. That's an easy rape to avoid.
It was rape but you say there was no force?
And you dare to pretend you're an attorney?
Hell, you even pretend to be an human being.
So they were married at the time ? Were they separated ? I'm trying to figure out why he would do such a thing, if they were already having a normal married couple's sexual relationship ?
Probably some complicated story? It doesn't sound anything close to normal. jmo. Abusive would be closer.
So---even though there are few resources for women in such situations--she should have left--allowed her husband to have their home and live on the street if that is all she could do.
She managed to get a divorce, get out and then too late tried to confront the issue.
Forgiveness may come later. She needs to think of herself --I've heard of the stages of grief--anger is maybe first--cannot recall.
Wouldn't waste a bullet on him. all I can say.
And people SAY the wonder why abused women don't go public, don't go the law.
Who can blame them for keeping quiet? If they go public, they get blamed for accepting a cup of coffee form their ex. If they video a rape, he goes free.
Is it any wonder why abused women keep quiet?
Its not like they're gonna get any help from the law.
No do lay people care.
There is no place an abused woman can go for help.
This woman is apparently consumed with rage and hate over three (or more) attacks that did her no physical harm and that she did not even remember.
Forgiveness is an individual thing and nobody can be told to forgive someone else for anything, but it does sound to me like this woman needs to get on with her life.
Why shouldn't she be consumed with rage? Sex is supposed to be consensual. Clearly this was not. She has a valid point.
I've known many abused women. Most of them keep quiet because they know what will happen and don't want it to happen.
The relationship between an abuser and his victim is incredibly complex. I've seen women get killed rather than leave. I've also seen women who are just done. All they want is to be away.
Without knowing every fact, it can be determined that this woman's fury has little if anything to do with the old rape. That didn't trouble her for years. It was something else. Maybe he got a girlfriend.[/QUOTE]
This woman is apparently consumed with rage and hate over three (or more) attacks that did her no physical harm and that she did not even remember.
Forgiveness is an individual thing and nobody can be told to forgive someone else for anything, but it does sound to me like this woman needs to get on with her life.
Why shouldn't she be consumed with rage? Sex is supposed to be consensual. Clearly this was not. She has a valid point.
So she says. I find it a little odd that she waited so long to bring this up.
Womans outrage after judge tells her to move on from husband raping her | Mail Online
An Indianapolis woman is outraged after her husband, who was sentenced Friday for drugging then raping her as she slept in her own bed, received no jail time.
Even more infuriating for Mandy Boardman were the words of Marion Superior Judge Kurt Eisgruber as he handed down a suspended prison sentence and eight years home detention.
'The judge looked at me before he gave the final decision,' Boardman told the IndyStar. 'I was told that I needed to forgive my attacker and move on.'
A jury convicted Wise last month of one count of rape and five counts of criminal deviate conduct all felonies punishable by six to 20 years in prison.
Boardman testified that in 2008 she found three sex videos of her on Wises cellphone but didnt remember the sex or consenting to the videos. She said she once woke up with a pill dissolving in her mouth.
Depraved: David Wise drugged and raped his wife in her own bed and was found out when she found videos of the attacks on his cell phone
Boardman, who was married to Wise for 12 years until their 2009 divorce, said she made a DVD copy of the videos and went to police with them in 2011.