martybegan
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Although I don't agree I appreciate the discussion... I think you'll come around someday, you're almost there ;-)I feel like we are now going in circles so perhaps its time to say we agree to disagree and end it there... I just have one more question for you... If a gay couple goes into a restaurant or a single person wearing a rainbow shirt... Is it OK with you for the restaurant to deny them service?substitute inequality with discrimination... I misspoke... To your other points, substitute LGBT with Blacks and Women and the 2000's with the early 1900's. This is a repetition of history and should speak for itself.Inequality is not always harm, and even if so, when does it become something that government gets involved in? I graduated 4th out of 290 kids in my High School. Did that inequality mandate government action to equalize the outcomes? Should I have been punished because I was smarter than those kids?
All the situations you list do show evidence of actual harm, except public acceptance. Most of them involve government interaction or rules, which I have already said have to be neutral.
By referencing public acceptance. you are trying to say government has a responsibility to get people to like some other group, or at least pretend to, and government shouldn't be doing that.
Back in the 1900's women were punished economically and politically by government as well as social conventions. Its the same with blacks between the Civil War and the Civil Rights era. Those examples simply do not cross over to the current situation with homosexuals. While the social oppression was always there, the political and economic oppression was often avoided by being under the radar, something women and blacks just couldn't do. When gays decided to "fight the power" they emerged with a background and power base already established (if closeted) that women and blacks simply didn't have. its why the fight took far shorter for them than with the other groups.
None of this explains why government has to punish one side in an argument basically over who's butt hurt is more equal than the other's butt hurt. In the battle of some people's butt hurt over serving gay people, and the gay people's butt hurt over being told that said other people's desire to not serve them, why does government get to punish one side instead of the other?
I actually think restaurants are public accommodations when it comes to standard service, and service shouldn't be denied. Now, the restaurant, if it allows itself to be bought out to host events, shouldn't be forced to host a gay wedding if it doesn't want to.
Nope. I just can't see government using force to adjudicate an issue of one person's feelings vs. another. Show me actual harm, and then If you notice, i agree government has a duty to enforce something.