MarathonMike
Diamond Member
I have a neighbor who was recently widowed. Her husband spent the last 4 years in a full service nursing home with advanced dementia. 8K per month nearly emptied all their savings and he was essentially a vegetable who had to be lifted out of bed and placed in a wheel chair with a mechanical lift. Euthanasia should be an option for patients like him but the nursing home lobby fights that tooth and nail.Having "enough" to retire basically and usually comes down to one thing: Will you and your spouse end up in a nursing home? If you do, most people run short. If you don't, and have a reasonable amount saved up you will be fine.
My sister is 84 and doing fine, living in a wonderful "independent living" facility, but at 84 she can't live much longer before her nest egg runs dry.