kaz
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- Dec 1, 2010
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ThisYou want complete control over the entire situation (pregnancy, life & death) then you should foot the entire bill.
Period
Abort your baby or I will not pay child support....got it
Or keep the baby, but I don't want it.
Why can a woman KILL the baby but the man is FORCED to abide by whatever decision she makes.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating fathers to drop out of their child's life. I am advocating that the responsible parties have equally say so in the outcomes of their own futures.
And my children are fully grown so leave the personal bullshit out of the thread.
Life isn't always fair. You're a Grampa and you still haven't learned that?
Women's lives are disproportionately affected by children. They have to bear them, they take more time off work, they disproportionately have to tend to them.
Then you whine they get to decide whether have to carry the baby in their own bodies or not? Too damned bad.
Then you whine about the money? The father doesn't want to support the kid so the options for the kid end up being to be killed or potentially live in poverty on the mother's income?
Here's an option the father had if he didn't want kids. Keep it in his pants. Since he didn't and wasn't responsible, shit happened. Welcome to life.