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Not yet.do you have a dnr for her? a hard but necessary step
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Not yet.do you have a dnr for her? a hard but necessary step
She's 18 years older.she is a few years older than you...and its good you can drop by often...that makes the staff pay more attention
She's 85. I'm 67. Before this started she was having problems dealing with a bad hip. We got that taken care of but the pain-killers they gave her started this memory loss.okay that takes time to adjust to...needing one...there are just so many twists and turns..and the paperwork will just be hard at times
Is in home care an option?...LOL!!!!
That's what I've been doing, Bubba.
Is in home care an option?...
It's going to cost me roughly $4000/mo to put my wife in a clean and safe facility so that she can live out her last years in an environment that is conducive for her health and mine.
Today I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack.
I think I've found a place about 3 miles away from my house. A place I've driven by often.
We'll see how everything turns out.....but I'm just about at the end of my rope.
Once you let the state into your home you have no privacy.Is in home care an option?...
It's going to cost me roughly $4000/mo to put my wife in a clean and safe facility so that she can live out her last years in an environment that is conducive for her health and mine.
Today I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack.
I think I've found a place about 3 miles away from my house. A place I've driven by often.
We'll see how everything turns out.....but I'm just about at the end of my rope.
So sorry. It is brutal when you have to have that kind of help but there are not sufficient funds to cover it. Check with your insurance carrier if you don't know whether you are covered for any of the expense. Also check with your state because some do have help with these kinds of situations. Also see if there are any private foundations or charities who might be able to help.It's going to cost me roughly $4000/mo to put my wife in a clean and safe facility so that she can live out her last years in an environment that is conducive for her health and mine.
Today I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack.
I think I've found a place about 3 miles away from my house. A place I've driven by often.
We'll see how everything turns out.....but I'm just about at the end of my rope.
people push home care who have no idea of how much care one takes in this stage ...plus the symptoms can include violence...my mother attacked me on more than one occasion
Truly sorry to hear that. You and I seem to disagree on everything, but all that goes away when it comes to something like this. I wish you both well.She's 85. I'm 67. Before this started she was having problems dealing with a bad hip. We got that taken care of but the pain-killers they gave her started this memory loss.
My wife threw a jar of pickled onions at me and nearly broke my foot today.people push home care who have no idea of how much care one takes in this stage ...plus the symptoms can include violence...my mother attacked me on more than one occasion
My wife threw a jar of pickled onions at me and nearly broke my foot today.
My foot swelled up.
I forgot to wear my steel toes.
She's 85. I'm 67. Before this started she was having problems dealing with a bad hip. We got that taken care of but the pain-killers they gave her started this memory loss.
Ex wife did that once. She didn't have dementia. She was just nuts.pickled onions?
dear Lord!