JoeB131
Diamond Member
If your sole purpose is to destroy a business instead of giving them business, then you are taking place in militant activism. You are purposefully targeting someone in order to expose and destroy them because of a difference in beliefs. You have crossed the line from holding a mere opinion to using that opinion to inflict damage on other individuals. I'm sorry, but I don't believe for one moment those two ladies had any intention of buying a cake. The law is clear, but the intent was not commercial. Those two women, in fact, were repeat customers there and knowing full well the beliefs of the proprietor(s). But suddenly out of the blue they ask them to bake a cake for a same sex wedding. To me, that is the definition of "ulterior motive."
If they were repeat customers and had patronized that business a bunch of times, they should have had a reasonable expectation that the business would meet their needs. and as you say, the law is clear.
Every business owner has their own beliefs, their own convictions, and suddenly they have to sacrifice them just to run a business in compliance with the law, and yes, sacrifices must be made. But here's the catch: that's wrong. There is something woefully wrong. Yes, the law is important, and rules are rules; don't misunderstand me here.
Yes, the business owner can have whatever beliefs they want, but they STILL have to follow the law. That business ONLY exists because the public pays for the infrastructure to allow it to operate. Utilities, police and fire protection, roads, commerce. Which means when a member of the public comes into a story looking for the goods and services you advertised, they should get it. Period.
But if you have to sacrifice something sacred to you in order to succeed in business and appease the rule of law, then this is justice run amok. I agree, business is business, and money is money and rightly so; but as someone who admires the law, the law also isn't perfect. There are good laws, and not so well thought out ones. Though, until the law changes, people must obey it. To be succinct, however, obedience should not come at the price of your own morals and convictions.
Guy, I realize you've never been able to hold down a job for more than a week, but guess what, we all have to make sacrifices if we aspire to doing more than live of relatives instead of the government. It's called, "having to work with other people". The Public Accommodation laws are there for a good reason- to make sure everyone has access to goods and services.
Call me a homophobe, a bigot, ignorant, stupid, misguided or whatever you like, but that is my observation on this topic. I don't hate gay people, but I don't like the ones who would force other people to accept their lifestyle. I mean, if the act of forcing your religious beliefs on others is wrong, just imagine how they feel when the same is done to them! Behavior like such is only self serving and only widens the chasm between supporters and opposition. It breeds more hatred than understanding. If respect and acceptance is the goal, then one must strive to show it also. The double edged sword sitting next to me would agree.
Oh, please, you had no problem forcing your beliefs when your opinion was in the majority. Now you've lost the argument, and you are saying, "please, please, please let me have this little corner wehre I can continue to be a bigot!"
And the rest of us are saying, "No".