Seawytch
Information isnt Advocacy
But that is just it. The government is making it our business. Why should government be involved in marriage at all? That is the question.
Because state governments write the marriage laws, administered by state courts. Its in essence contract law, and can no more be separated from state governments than any other type of contract law, or laws regulating speed limits, or licensing physicians.
And the 14th Amendment requires the state to allow all persons access to all of that states laws, including marriage law.
If conservatives would simply obey the Constitution and its case law, then this pointless controversy wouldnt be an issue at all.
The 14th Amendment has never, ever applied to marriage laws. We can see this plainly in the differences in age requirements, blood tests, and differing exclusions. First cousins may marry in one state, but not in another. 16-year-olds may marry in one state, but not in another.
You might want to check your facts. Look up Loving v Virginia.