Sex/ethics stuff

[ChrisL]

Why does this moron have to come to every thread and ruin it with his nonsensical blabbering? WHY?

 

[ChrisL]

Anyways, among my coworkers and my friends and my social gatherings, we aren't talking about our sex lives. We talk about our jobs, our kids, cooking, husbands, other family members, recipes, clothes, other types of personal problems, etc.

 

[ChrisL]

I remember one friend did talk to me a little about her sex life with her husband, telling me about how awesome her sex life was. I was like, "errr, okay, do you want me to throw you a parade or something?" Anyhow, about 6 months later, I found out she had cheated on him and they were getting divorced! I guess the sex wasn't all it was cracked up to be!

 

[Crixus]

Anyways, among my coworkers and my friends and my social gatherings, we aren't talking about our sex lives. We talk about our jobs, our kids, cooking, husbands, other family members, recipes, clothes, other types of personal problems, etc.

I figured. I thing wrong with that. But people like different things in the bedroom. Those you hang with are likely of the same opinion as you, and that is that sex talk should be between your self and your best half. For others, they like to not only talk about sex, but have sex to. These days what was taboo is not taboo anymore. Just because they like that don’t make them no class type folks.

 

[ChrisL]

Anyways, among my coworkers and my friends and my social gatherings, we aren't talking about our sex lives. We talk about our jobs, our kids, cooking, husbands, other family members, recipes, clothes, other types of personal problems, etc.

I figured. I thing wrong with that. But people like different things in the bedroom. Those you hang with are likely of the same opinion as you, and that is that sex talk should be between your self and your best half. For others, they like to not only talk about sex, but have sex to. These days what was taboo is not taboo anymore. Just because they like that don’t make them no class type folks.

"Doesn't" make them, and yes it does.

 

[danielpalos]

I give women from the Show-Me State a free pass; simply for the sake of our more Perfect Union.

 

[WinterBorn]

Yes, it is the same work. If you and I work an assembly line, and we both produce the same amount, we should be paid the same.

You are assuming. Not everyone works the same.

I assumed nothing. I stated an If/Then situation.

IF you and I work on an assembly line, and we both produce the same amount, THEN we should be paid the same.

Same work = same pay.

Not every Man on that assembly line is being paid the same; why should Women.

They all got the same starting pay. And they all got the same interval wage increases.

You are dancing around the topic. Why do you think women should be paid less for the same work? Are they inferior?

Wo-men, are by definition, not Men; Or, they would have no problem making appointments for a full body massage with happy ending. If wo-men refuse to be that ambitious and proactive, why should they get paid the same as men, ceteris paribus?

Because we are talking about work, not putting themselves in the hands of a psychopath.

 

[WinterBorn]

Yes, it is the same work. If you and I work an assembly line, and we both produce the same amount, we should be paid the same.

You are assuming. Not everyone works the same.

I assumed nothing. I stated an If/Then situation.

IF you and I work on an assembly line, and we both produce the same amount, THEN we should be paid the same.

Same work = same pay.

Not every Man on that assembly line is being paid the same; why should Women.

supply and demand

I demand and you supply or do you demand and I supply?

There is a demand and there is a supply. For you there is only a wish and a fantasy.

 

[WinterBorn]

If the act of sex as a natural act was gratifying, I don't think anyone would feel a "need" to deviate from it.
Obviously, it gets boring for some.

it is "stress relief" for many guys.

would women feel the same, if they equally, got off as often as men?

What makes you think they don't?

 

[WinterBorn]

I have a button to push.
Massage with NO happy ending.. LOL!

I wouldn't let that creep within 10 miles of me! Massage or no massage, capitalism or socialism, causeless and clueless or causeful and clueful. Doesn't matter.

every woman but You.

LMAO!!! You mean 'No women, including her'?

 

[Gracie]

Well...I was hoping I would not have to ask but nobody gave the info so....what the hell is a dirty sanchez??? Or do I even want to know?

I agree with Chris in much of what she says but not so much in others. With that said...I am 65 years old and didn't even know what a man looked like "down there" until I was about 16 years old. I thought they were like a dog. This extension skin that something wet and pink would slide out of. Which is why I stayed a virgin so long I guess. It grossed me out, that image.
And..I don't mind talking about sex now, hence the OP, but in a standoffish way. I would not talk about MY sex life (when I had one, lol) because I was not raised that way and I consider it as private as my spiritual path. Its just something not to discuss. Period.

 

[danielpalos]

You are assuming. Not everyone works the same.

I assumed nothing. I stated an If/Then situation.

IF you and I work on an assembly line, and we both produce the same amount, THEN we should be paid the same.

Same work = same pay.

Not every Man on that assembly line is being paid the same; why should Women.

They all got the same starting pay. And they all got the same interval wage increases.

You are dancing around the topic. Why do you think women should be paid less for the same work? Are they inferior?

Wo-men, are by definition, not Men; Or, they would have no problem making appointments for a full body massage with happy ending. If wo-men refuse to be that ambitious and proactive, why should they get paid the same as men, ceteris paribus?

Because we are talking about work, not putting themselves in the hands of a psychopath.

guys are more, ambitious and proactive; they prove it by not having any problems with full body massage with happy ending or making appointments.

 

[danielpalos]

You are assuming. Not everyone works the same.

I assumed nothing. I stated an If/Then situation.

IF you and I work on an assembly line, and we both produce the same amount, THEN we should be paid the same.

Same work = same pay.

Not every Man on that assembly line is being paid the same; why should Women.

supply and demand

I demand and you supply or do you demand and I supply?

There is a demand and there is a supply. For you there is only a wish and a fantasy.

for free. I noticed women don't have the same problem, for free. lack of effort on the part of wo-men?

 

[danielpalos]

If the act of sex as a natural act was gratifying, I don't think anyone would feel a "need" to deviate from it.
Obviously, it gets boring for some.

it is "stress relief" for many guys.

would women feel the same, if they equally, got off as often as men?

What makes you think they don't?

because they are like right wing guys; mostly all political talk and mostly no political action, for free.

 

[danielpalos]

Well...I was hoping I would not have to ask but nobody gave the info so....what the hell is a dirty sanchez??? Or do I even want to know?

I agree with Chris in much of what she says but not so much in others. With that said...I am 65 years old and didn't even know what a man looked like "down there" until I was about 16 years old. I thought they were like a dog. This extension skin that something wet and pink would slide out of. Which is why I stayed a virgin so long I guess. It grossed me out, that image.
And..I don't mind talking about sex now, hence the OP, but in a standoffish way. I would not talk about MY sex life (when I had one, lol) because I was not raised that way and I consider it as private as my spiritual path. Its just something not to discuss. Period.

There are no laws that state women can lie to men or let men miss their turn. Why do women do it?

 

[WinterBorn]

I assumed nothing. I stated an If/Then situation.

IF you and I work on an assembly line, and we both produce the same amount, THEN we should be paid the same.

Same work = same pay.

Not every Man on that assembly line is being paid the same; why should Women.

They all got the same starting pay. And they all got the same interval wage increases.

You are dancing around the topic. Why do you think women should be paid less for the same work? Are they inferior?

Wo-men, are by definition, not Men; Or, they would have no problem making appointments for a full body massage with happy ending. If wo-men refuse to be that ambitious and proactive, why should they get paid the same as men, ceteris paribus?

Because we are talking about work, not putting themselves in the hands of a psychopath.

guys are more, ambitious and proactive; they prove it by not having any problems with full body massage with happy ending or making appointments.

That only proves they are more likely to want sex, regardless of who they are fucking.

Whether the woman wants a massage from someone that does not appeal to her has nothing to do with her performance at work.

If it does, her refusal shows she is more likely to refuse to do something for a very short-term gain. It shows determination and resolve.

 

[WinterBorn]

Well...I was hoping I would not have to ask but nobody gave the info so....what the hell is a dirty sanchez??? Or do I even want to know?

I agree with Chris in much of what she says but not so much in others. With that said...I am 65 years old and didn't even know what a man looked like "down there" until I was about 16 years old. I thought they were like a dog. This extension skin that something wet and pink would slide out of. Which is why I stayed a virgin so long I guess. It grossed me out, that image.
And..I don't mind talking about sex now, hence the OP, but in a standoffish way. I would not talk about MY sex life (when I had one, lol) because I was not raised that way and I consider it as private as my spiritual path. Its just something not to discuss. Period.

There are no laws that state women can lie to men or let men miss their turn. Why do women do it?

Laws do not state what people CAN do. It states what they CANNOT do.

 

[WinterBorn]

I assumed nothing. I stated an If/Then situation.

IF you and I work on an assembly line, and we both produce the same amount, THEN we should be paid the same.

Same work = same pay.

Not every Man on that assembly line is being paid the same; why should Women.

supply and demand

I demand and you supply or do you demand and I supply?

There is a demand and there is a supply. For you there is only a wish and a fantasy.

for free. I noticed women don't have the same problem, for free. lack of effort on the part of wo-men?

No. It simply means they are in demand. If you have something that is in very high demand, you get to choose who gets it. And we are back to "Why should women choose you, when there are men they are attracted to who will do the same thing?"

 

[evenflow1969]

I can say the same about you and yours. I’m sorry, but when you get a group of 20 something’s together you are going to get raunchy sex talk be they boys or girls. I won’t even go into the chicks in the Navy or the forest service. So you know, my best half was/is a stripper. She thinks like you until she hits the locker room again. Sex isn’t what it was when you were 19. Some like weird stuff. A perk necklace is actually quite mundane in the age of The dirty Sanchez.

I have no idea what you are talking about. I do work with women of all ages. It is your environment and the people you hang out with.

Not really. Especially woman have become more open and vocal about sexual issues. Unless you are the secratary at a Taliban office or something you really can’t miss it. Much of this sex stuff you mention has come from the social acceptability of porn amount young folks. Sex is only dirty for old folks and religious nuts. Meh, whatever’s.

And do you feel the same about gay sex? Do you want a gay coworker coming in and describing his sexcapades?

No. But then a perfect stranger has never come up to me and told me about their sex the night before. I also never felt the need to dwell on other people’s sex habits. That and a gay dude is still a human. They may feel uncomfortable talking about it with th me as I am straight.

So? Don't you LIKE to hear about other people's sex?

I do not like to hear a little over half of what people talk about! It does not stop them from saying it.

 

[evenflow1969]

If the act of sex as a natural act was gratifying, I don't think anyone would feel a "need" to deviate from it.
Obviously, it gets boring for some.

it is "stress relief" for many guys.

would women feel the same, if they equally, got off as often as men?

Women can actualy reach orgasm many more times in a day than a man can!