The whole "gay marriage" debate is based on lies to begin with. There are no gay marriage bans. Every single one of those laws simply say that the State will not recognize gay marriages for legal purposes, it does not outlaw or prevent anyone from performing a "gay marriage" or being in one. They don't "ban" anything.
What the queers and queer worshiping progressives want, is for everyone to accept "gay marriage" as normal, as well as to outlaw any type of opposition to it. Once they use the state to force everyone to accept it, they will start going after anyone who "discriminates" against queers when people choose to not recognize their "gay marriage" based on either their own religious beliefs or common sense. In the end, this is all about using the state to control and force anyone who isn't with the queer and progressive Agenda into submitting to it by force.
What the queers and queer worshiping progressives want, is for everyone to accept "gay marriage" as normal, as well as to outlaw any type of opposition to it. Once they use the state to force everyone to accept it, they will start going after anyone who "discriminates" against queers when people choose to not recognize their "gay marriage" based on either their own religious beliefs or common sense. In the end, this is all about using the state to control and force anyone who isn't with the queer and progressive Agenda into submitting to it by force.