Beat her ass, she's 18, wouldn't be child abuse any more.![]()
True... after she's an adult it becomes simple assault.
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Beat her ass, she's 18, wouldn't be child abuse any more.![]()
A New Jersey teenager claiming that her mother and father tossed her out of their home and cut her off financially is suing them for immediate support, current private-school fees and future college tuition. The parents, meanwhile, say that daughter Rachel Canning, 18, moved out voluntarily after refusing to abide by their rules.
We love our child and miss her. This is terrible. Its killing me and my wife, Rachel's father, Sean Canning, a town administrator and retired police officer, tells the Daily Record. We have a child we want home. Were not Draconian and now were getting hauled into court. Shes demanding that we pay her bills but she doesnt want to live at home, and shes saying, I dont want to live under your rules. The rules, he notes, include reconsidering her relationship with a boyfriend who may be a bad influence, being respectful, and abiding by her curfew. He and his wife, Elizabeth, who live in suburban Lincoln Park, about 25 miles outside of New York City, have kept their daughters car because they paid for it, says Canning, and he admits that they did stop paying Rachel's tuition at the private Morris Catholic High School. A hearing is scheduled to take place on Tuesday in the Morris County Superior Court.
Teen Sues Parents for Cash, College Tuition. Does She Have a Case?
I think this young woman is in the wrong, because she refused to abide by her parents' rules while living in their home. What do you guys think of this situation?
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Well, they raised the brat so now they get to deal with it
sheesh amazing
Seems kind of cruel to toss an obviously rational and intelligent 18 year old girl out on the streets. If it's legal in N.J. to abandon an 18 year old child the kid doesn't have a case.
Wealthy people can be shitty parents too, people. The assumptions that it's the kid who's wrong in this instance, that the parents are all they say they are, is very telling.
“A child is not emancipated until they’re on their own,” Simon said. “Even if a child and the parents don’t get along, that doesn’t relieve the parents of their responsibility.” Laufer noted that under New Jersey law, a child can still be declared nonemancipated even if there is a hiatus between high school graduation and college.
...Rachel Canning filed a certification with the court that contends her parents jointly decided on Oct. 29, 2013 that as of Nov. 1 — her 18th birthday — she would be cut off “from all support both financially and emotionally.” She said in her papers that Morris Catholic advised her not to return home and contacted the state Division of Child Protection and Permanency (known as DCP&P and formerly as DYFS) after Rachel alleged abuse.
...Sean Canning said that a DCP&P representative visited his home for about three hours last fall, found nothing amiss, determined that Rachel was “spoiled” and discontinued the investigation. He said that he and his wife are beside themselves that discord with their daughter has reached this level.
Rush-Masuret and Sean Canning said that Rachel was seeing a therapist long before moving out and is supposed to take medication.
In his court certification, John Inglesino wrote that he believed Rachel’s stay in his home would be short and temporary. He wrote that his attempts to speak to Sean Canning about financial obligations to his daughter have not been fruitful and he and his wife, Amy, believe Rachel is “emotionally distraught by her parents’ sudden rejection of her....”
Wealthy people can be shitty parents too, people. The assumptions that it's the kid who's wrong in this instance, that the parents are all they say they are, is very telling.
Unless these parents are abusing her, she has no case. No legal standing whatsoever. This child's attitude is one borne out of entitlement.
I think she needs to wake up and smell the coffee.
She's 18.
Tough.
I think we need to clarify what an adult is in this country
At 18 you can be tried in court as an adult, vote as an adult, serve your country, be on a jury
Yet you are not adult enough to drink alchohol or be fully emancipated from your parents
I don't think any kid has a right to attend a private High School or College. That is something that is earned. If she wants to leave the house she can pay for her private High School or go to public school. I don't know what her "college fund" is. If she contributed to it, she has a right to that money. If it is money her parents put aside for her education, she has no right to it
what if there is inheritance from other family members that was orally designated to her education?
Grandma: "I'm leaving you everything but make sure you pay for my grand daughters education".
don't decide until you have all the facts folks