Lilah
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They are being told which gender they cannot marry. That is gender discrimination.Because no gender is being told they can't marry.
No different than being told what race you have to marry.
Your argument is as stupid as when interracial marriages were illegal and some bigoted idiot (redundant phrase) like you would say, "No race is being told they can't marry."
a union of two men or two women is NOT a marriage.
Yes, it is. Sorry about that!
They should be able to legally commit to each other and have that union recognized, but it is NOT a marriage.
Your stupid little semantics game is transparent.
If you folks down at Westboro Baptist don't want to call a gay marriage a marriage, that's your right. But you don't get to force them not to call their marriage a marriage.
As for having their union recognized, that won't be true until they receive the exact same state and federal government cash and prizes we heteros get for being married.
That's all they want. You can stomp your feet and blow a lot of retard smoke about the word "marriage", but until you get it through your thick skull that that is all they want then you will continue to sound like a retard.
Now focus: Government cash and prizes. They want the same. "Equal protection of the laws."
Get that through your head. It isn't about a word, idiot. It is about tangible things. Real world shit that actually matters. Legal stuff.
a gay civil union would give them exactly the same govt cash and prizes as a man/woman marriage.
IT IS ALL ABOUT THE WORD, DEAL WITH THAT REALITY.
They Sexually abnormal NEED it to be MARRIAGE... because they recognize the inherent legitimacy of Marriage.
What they're not sufficiently heeled, intellectually speaking, is that the standard which provides for the inherent legitimacy of Marriage, precludes their
participation.
A lot of people consider the marriage certificate to be a property-sharing agreement. A lot of women, and men, get a house, a new car, and an allowance of thousands of dollars a month, all for the simple reason that they hooked up with someone who has money. Some people will not settle for a regular person. They want a rich one. Beauty, a depreciating asset, is the only thing some people bring to the table and when it has outlived its usefulness, the promises made fall by the wayside. In such cases was the marriage legitimate?
Consider a gay couple who have been together for 30+ years, monogamously of course, who desire the same protections that marriage offers to straight people, such as if one partner dies, the other partner is not entitled to bereavement leave from work, to file wrongful death claims, to draw the Social Security of the deceased partner, or to automatically inherit a shared home, assets, or personal items if they are not married. Unmarried couples are denied the automatic right to joint parenting, joint adoption, joint foster care, and visitation for non-biological parents. In addition, the children of unmarried couples are denied the guarantee of child support and an automatic legal relationship to both parents, and are sometimes sent a wrongheaded but real negative message about their own status and family.
What does marriage mean to the likes of you?