Sunshine
Trust the pie.
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I have been physically assaulted. I was working alone when a transient, a guy plenty big enough to take me out with a single blow, came in demanding money. When I told him I didn't have any he became angry and irate. He locked the door and had me cornered and was so threatening I honestly thought I was a goner. I had no weapon of any kind at my disposal. I honestly cannot remember every detail--trauma of that kind does that to you--but somehow I did manage to convince him I would need to get to the (nonexistent) safe in the next room, he stepped back just enough to let me get past him and out another door and ran to the Methodist church next door. The transient was rifling through my desk--he somehow missed my purse that was under it--when he was interrupted by my boss returning and he fled.
If I had had a gun that day however, and had seen no way to escape, would I have shot? I almost certainly would have. Would my intent be to kill the guy? I don't think so. It would have been to stop him from whatever violence he intended to do. And he hadn't even touched me yet. In the situation almost everybody now believes George Zimmerman was in, was he justified in shooting? I would have. Was his intent to kill or stop the assault? I would guess the latter. But none of us know for sure do we?
Here in KY, we have special relationships with out guns. We are taught from an early age in that type situation never to pick up a gun unless we plan to kill the person. I had a break in at my house in TN, and once before I moved away, I answered the door with my gun in my hand hidden behind the door. There is no doubt in my mind I would have used it. Otherwise, I would not have even picked it up.
Bottom line, you don't know what they have and when they see your gun, they could pull one and get you first.
My mother was/is of the 'no guns in this house' school.
So, while I agree that those who are properly trained and have the temperament to be judicious and/or responsible in using them can/should, I don't have the experience and knowledge myself.
I have observed fights among/between middle school students. Things get intense--that much I know. Plenty of profanity--this was considered unexceptional.
Whatever was said by either party--that doesn't carry much weight with me.
The use of the dummy to illustrate for either side was confusing to me.
Hopefully the jurors can sort this out.
O'Mara reiterated in his press conference--'Self defense is self defense.'
I taught some pretty incorrigible kids and would hate to learn that any of them had been killed. There wasn't much that anyone seemed to be able to say or do for some. They really hated me or so they said. So tired of all the hating---but that is just me and some insight into why this case is of interest to me. fwiw.
Thank you for sharing.