ChrisL
Diamond Member
An honest question maybe. But so was mine. If women are attracted to men, why do some men downplay their masculinity to attract women? Why do some men flaunt their masculinity to attract women?Why do some gay men act more feminine? I don't know why do some straight men wear skinny jeans and eyeliner?
The question is, if gay men are attracted to other MEN, why do a lot of the men act like women? It's an honest question, and I expect an honest answer.
It's a matter of preference. Lots of gay men are not into the things that straight men like. For example, WOMEN. So it shouldn't be surprising to you that they pick a tight pink shirt over some lumberjack flannel.
Then what is the difference between those particular gay folks and trans? Also, more so than what the particular gay man prefers, I am wondering about the gay men that are attracted to a "feminine" gay man? If they like men, why would they find femininity attractive? It just doesn't make sense to a lot of us straight people.