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I look at it like this:
I don't care who you are, what you do (within the bounds of law), what you stand for or how you stand for it. So long as you don't force that on me, my tolerance will be numbered as the stars in the sky. The Constitution gives you all the right in the world to believe what you want and do what you want (once again within the bounds of the law). That tolerance, however, goes away when you decide to tell me what I am, what I should do, what I stand for or how I stand for it, and threaten action against me because you yourself are intolerant of it. As long as you walk my fine line of tolerance, I'll walk yours. It's that simple.
Well you are more tolerant than I am TK, because if you make a statement that I disagree with on a message board, I will often tell you why I disagree with it. However, there are some, including you, at USMB who allow that, even welcome that, so long as I am addressing your opinion and not, as you explained, tellling YOU what YOU think, want, believe, who you are, or misrepresent what you say. That makes for great discussion and give and take.
And there are some who simply are incapable of addressing and rebutting the other person's opinion. They instead go after the person who expressed the opinion accusing him/her of all sorts of negative things while they rarely, if ever, address the opinion that provoked the attack. And if we push back on that, the food fight starts. Or, if they are unable to provoke a food fight, they get in a huff, snit, or whatever, put on their rubber pants, take their ball, and go home. And if a thread dissolves into nothing but a food fight, I can be just as frustrated and 'go home' myself.
On a message board no harm no foul. I can ignore those who accuse me of all manner of things including being a liar, being blindly partisan, being stupid, being whatever. I probably won't respect them much if they do that, but oh well. If I don't want my thoughts dictated by them, then I have to allow them their thoughts too. And if they want to make it personal, that is their right. I just don't have to participate.
In real life it gets more complicated. There when people attack others for their beliefs, it can have real life consequences. And at some point, as a society, as a culture, we have to be able to distinguish right from wrong in a material way when it comes to tolerance. Organizing in an effort to stop those who are hurting others in a physical or material way, yes. Organizing to punish somebody who expresses an opinon or uses a word we don't like? I can't justify that on any moral or ethical grounds.
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