A long time ago I worked with a 20 year old man who got his girlfriend pregnant. For nine months all she heard was how much he wanted the baby. Then it was born. He got another girlfriend. Baby went out the window. Ex girlfriend showed up at his door "you know that baby you wanted. Here it is." She handed him the kid, walked away and he never saw her again. Which is a fitting end. Oh yes, the new girlfriend dumped him.