Abstinence 'is not realistic,' Palin's daughter says

[Sky Dancer]

I hope your heart continues to open and be tender. It takes courage to love. No matter who you love, you will lose that someone one way or another. Even a soul mate is lost to death. One of you usually dies before the other.

I'ts a case of letting yourself feel it, without letting yourself wallow in it. Not easy to do. I had many disappointing love affairs before finding my true love.

I don't regret any of them.

 

[dilloduck]

What I don't see in any of Amanda's photos is a happy face.

Life hasn't been very happy lately. And I look like a complete moron when I smile. I try to shoot for sultry... I don't think I pull it off but I never hear the boys complain.

I hear you. Life isn't always happy. When I met my wife, (yes, we just got legally married in July just before Prop 8 shut it down) I thought she was the most beautiful woman I'd ever met. I still think of her that way. It was her eyes that drew me in, very clear and mischievous.

She's the naughtiest, funniest, brightest and most talented woman I've met. I'm so lucky she picked me--she picked ME. She knew from the moment we met--I was the one.

I was a bit denser and more damaged. She did a complete background check on me and I passed with flying colors.

We met at a Buddhist meditation retreat. We sat across from each other in the library. She looked up at me and said, "Do I know you?" with this big grin on her face. I looked at her and said, "you look familiar, have we met before?"

She said, yes. I met you at BPD, but you were mighty busy. I was with Dk she said. I said oh yeah--out of context. (BPD was a networking organization for gay and lesbian professional women). I'd noticed her, but I had about three working dramas going on with other women at that meeting.

Then the retreat started, and you don't talk or even look at each other. It's quite a beautiful way to open the heart, you aren't your story, you're just another human being, sitting, walking, eating, praying and resting in silent awareness.

At the end of the retreat she asked me my name and my phone number. Then she did her background check and called me for a date on Valentine's Day. I was socially a busy gal with dates and I put her off for two weeks.

The first date was special, but I had an old girlfriend I had to straighten things out with. The rest unfolded quickly.

I've always been difficult about committment and I really challenged her in the early years. We are very happy with each other and I know I will continue to spend the rest of my life with her.

I enjoy looking at beautiful women as much as the next one--but I've no interest in straying--not even a bit.

This is the most complex interesting woman I've ever met.

oh shit---now I'm gonna cry too.

 

[Amanda]

oh shit---now I'm gonna cry too.

Let them flow Duck, there is no shame in having feelings and being real.

 

[del]

i'm definitely gonna puke if the insulin shock doesn't kill me first.

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

 

[Amanda]

look bottom line,if you want to abstain from sex....just get married....before long....its like the monastery....

Don't be such a cynic Harry.

 

[Sky Dancer]

That's funny dillo--

If you're not poking fun, it's one of the sweetest things you've ever said.

I've fallen in love with three men, but I was only lovers with one of them. One was married, so we didn't pursue our feelings--I was the most in love with him. The other was a high school sweetheart. Lots of first, second and third base, but no home run. I was a boy I was with in college. I had to dare myself to do it--at age 23, I was old in those days to be a virgin.

He couldn't talk and it drove me crazy.

I love men. I find a number of them attractive. If I wasn't married, I might consider being with a man. But it's just not in my cards.

 

[dilloduck]

oh shit---now I'm gonna cry too.

Let them flow Duck, there is no shame in having feelings and being real.

hmmmm i ain't crying around no half naked drunk chick. That's just wrong

 

[Sky Dancer]

i'm definitely gonna puke if the insulin shock doesn't kill me first.

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

That figures. If you drop your aversion and hatred you'd feel better. Never mind, call Dis in. She'll help you spew some crap.

 

[dilloduck]

That's funny dillo--

If you're not polng fun, it's one of the sweetest things you've ever said.

I've fallen in love with three men, but I was only lovers with one of them. One was married, so we didn't pursue our feelings--I was the most in love with him. The other was a high school sweetheart. Lots of first, second and third base, but no home run. I was a boy I was with in college. I had to dare myself to do it--at age 23, I was old in those days to be a virgin.

He couldn't talk and it drove me crazy.

I love men. I find a number of them attractive. If I wasn't married, I might consider being with a man. But it's just not in my cards.

naturally that makes zero sense to me but that's to be expected huh?

 

[dilloduck]

i'm definitely gonna puke if the insulin shock doesn't kill me first.

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Don't puke on plants---KK says it kills em !

 

[Sky Dancer]

That's funny dillo--

If you're not polng fun, it's one of the sweetest things you've ever said.

I've fallen in love with three men, but I was only lovers with one of them. One was married, so we didn't pursue our feelings--I was the most in love with him. The other was a high school sweetheart. Lots of first, second and third base, but no home run. I was a boy I was with in college. I had to dare myself to do it--at age 23, I was old in those days to be a virgin.

He couldn't talk and it drove me crazy.

I love men. I find a number of them attractive. If I wasn't married, I might consider being with a man. But it's just not in my cards.

naturally that makes zero sense to me but that's to be expected huh?

Never mind. You don't recognize an olive branch, do you?

 

[dilloduck]

That's funny dillo--

If you're not polng fun, it's one of the sweetest things you've ever said.

I've fallen in love with three men, but I was only lovers with one of them. One was married, so we didn't pursue our feelings--I was the most in love with him. The other was a high school sweetheart. Lots of first, second and third base, but no home run. I was a boy I was with in college. I had to dare myself to do it--at age 23, I was old in those days to be a virgin.

He couldn't talk and it drove me crazy.

I love men. I find a number of them attractive. If I wasn't married, I might consider being with a man. But it's just not in my cards.

naturally that makes zero sense to me but that's to be expected huh?

Never mind. You don't recognize an olive branch, do you?

thinking everyone is gonna "get" what you "get" is a bit presumptuous don't you think ?

 

[Sky Dancer]

Take something for that nausea, Del. Maybe it's the shock of actually talking to a lesbian without using a slur that's affecting your stomache.

 

[Sky Dancer]

My advice to you Amanda. Don't beat yourself up for experimenting--nor worry about your identity. You're probably heterosexual.

I'm the worst person at counseling anyone about sexual identity issues. My own experience is that sexuality is on a continuum and is a lot less solid that most people consider.

 

[del]

i'm definitely gonna puke if the insulin shock doesn't kill me first.

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Don't puke on plants---KK says it kills em !

that's okay, i'm a big fan of global warming, the more CO2, the better.

 

[RodISHI]

look bottom line,if you want to abstain from sex....just get married....before long....its like the monastery....

Don't be such a cynic Harry.

Poor Harry no sympathy here.

 

[dilloduck]

i'm definitely gonna puke if the insulin shock doesn't kill me first.

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Don't puke on plants---KK says it kills em !

that's okay, i'm a big fan of global warming, the more CO2, the better.

it's cool----didn't want to have to feel guilty afterwords--

 

[del]

i'm definitely gonna puke if the insulin shock doesn't kill me first.

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

That figures. If you drop your aversion and hatred you'd feel better. Never mind, call Dis in. She'll help you spew some crap.

aversion to what, world class asshats?

i don't need any help to handle a basketcase like you, hon.

go ahead, take your best shot.

 

[del]

Take something for that nausea, Del. Maybe it's the shock of actually talking to a lesbian without using a slur that's affecting your stomache.

are you this stupid in real life?

 

[dilloduck]

look bottom line,if you want to abstain from sex....just get married....before long....its like the monastery....

Don't be such a cynic Harry.

Poor Harry no sympathy here.

yo Harry---there's a 'cheating on your spouse' thread you might wanna check into !